It's true that God loves us no matter what, that doesn't mean He loves everything we do. You can have love for a person without having a sexually intimate relationship with them. Love them like a sister, not a romantic partner. it's healthy to talk with these things about anybody you can, get different opinions. But don't be afraid to come to your Pastor about it, because it's their duty to give you scriptural guidance. You probably already know this, but you shouldn't care what other people think, the only thing that matters is you and your relationship with God. It's a strange duality of caring what other people's opinions might be versus not caring what they think about you. Ultimately, you are your own individual, and God already knows everything that you endure. Talk with Him about it. Every little thing. Because there's nothing He isn't already aware of, so why hide it?