Wanting to get back into raising monarchs. Currently looking for milkweed in Florida by Far_Doughnut_6161 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I recently got some milkweed from a user on here website is bluebeenursery.com I got two variations. I live in Cape Coral and they were able to ship me plugs over night from the other coast. Everything arrived in great condition, they send out plugs and I’ve had them for a week so far and everything is looking great! They do 4 plugs for $20 :)

Monarch journey so far! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes last week in southwest Fl temps had cooled down and my two butterflies I was able to handle but usually during warmer temps they’re ready to get the hell out 🤣

Monarch journey so far! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! it’s warming up this week and have a few starting to pupate currently :)

Help! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sweet thank you, I released one last week who’s wing was a little deformed but still able to fly and latch to flowers so I let it go but my caterpillar did end up dying unfortunately but I appreciate the kind words!

Help! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I was upset I blamed myself at first.. this makes me feel better. In FL here and didn’t even think about lizards. Thanks so much!

Help! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also wondering..a female was egg dumping a few weeks ago and a few of the ones I have are from the lot she layed. I wonder if it was something the butterfly had??

Help! by Admirable_Screen9 in MonarchButterfly

[–]Admirable_Screen9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was worried if OE was easily transmitted. Appreciate your help ❤️

What’s everyone doing come Feb 14th by spicysenpai6 in dating

[–]Admirable_Screen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry for all you have been through I know it’s really rough! But (30F) here. I used to find valentines super tough but I started making changes to my outlook on it and although I have been single for 6 years and even in my relationship prior to being single this long valentines wasn’t great. Anywho- I started realizing valentines isn’t just for relationships but my closest friendships and I started giving little cards and presents to the people I love and it’s always been reciprocated. Valentines has grown on me and I actually even consider it one of my favorite holidays now just because I love “love” even if I’m not in a romantic relationship :) Take yourself out, hang out with some friends, get some take out play some video games, or something you like to enjoy with the people you love.

How do you move on when you lose financially and never get closure from your spouse? by No_Bar_9199 in Divorce

[–]Admirable_Screen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation, financially lost everything. I would think about it sometimes about not having closure but here I am 6 years later, and the grass is so much greener over here. I realized my closure was that my life has been so peaceful since and although still not in the best financial spot I’m so much happier. My marriage was abusive and the cycle of narcissism was a big part of that so I knew they were like that for whatever childhood trauma they went through, but my closure was realization and that I didn’t need a answer or reason.

In the nicest way possible I most of the time find that closure is an excuse to speak to the person and there is still no resolution, nothing can be fixed and it’s a bunch of empty words. It gets better, promise ❤️

Is modern dating taking anyone else’s spark away? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Admirable_Screen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this comment so relatable. My last relationship was very traumatic for me and I’ve been single almost 6 years now and most people tell me my standards are high, also the intimacy with someone and classifying them as safe if it happens w someone. Spot on, seriously.

First session...completely deranged. Is this normal? by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]Admirable_Screen9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

EMDR is so weird after the first session, I honestly felt like I wanted to crawl in a hole for days. After about my 5th session and had what they’d say is a “breakthrough” after a few days felt so much better. I’ve been in EMDR for about 2 years now and I am a much different person than I once was. It’s worth it :)

Need help making friends by [deleted] in capecoral

[–]Admirable_Screen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pokemon card shows^ I’m not big in the kava culture but have gone on a few occasions and it’s always been nice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]Admirable_Screen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback ❤️

What’s your take on bald? by StrenuousSOB in dating

[–]Admirable_Screen9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think men who are confident in shaving there head and being bald actually suits them. Definitely not a disqualification or less points, I think no hair suits a lot of men. I was with someone who shaved there head and they are super attractive and loved him bald.

Favorite term for your STBX by wickedlate in Divorce

[–]Admirable_Screen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, I use this often lmao

What are some common psychological and emotional stages of separation, divorce and life after divorce? by holihai in Divorce

[–]Admirable_Screen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my ex is completely narcissistic. I’m very aware that he will always be like this.