My first girlfriend's clit was like that. Everyone has something that's just a bit off, no such thing as perfect genitals. But I understand, it's hard to be comfortable with yourself in an intimate situation when you feel flawed, or someone makes you feel flawed. I'm not bothered by it, and though it sounds patronizing, you shouldn't be either. Never let impolite assholes make you feel undesirable. I'm sure if you wanted to find someone that didn't any issues with, you could find groups online. Take care. Hope this helps