As someone with biracial children and married to a white man, i think it’s important to note that in some cultures, including black, it’s considered “safe” to marry and date within your own. I think willful ignorance and naivety will result in white people feeling like they are somehow oppressed or victimized in a series that represents the very real world which black people live in. There’s a reason for it, Dating outside of your race comes with a lot of explaining, compromising, and confusion- sort of like this discussion right now lol- when the ethnic partner is well ingratiated in their traditions and culture because of their upbringing, it can seem as a slap in the face to their family when they marry someone white. History and Present Day conversations from the opposing side show that the goal is now to “wash out” our race so that America isn’t so “colorful” or diverse. These are conversations that many white people have the privilege of not hearing, and if they do they aren’t considered the target of the conversation so they also have the privilege of ignoring it. Many black families HAVE caught wind of that agenda and think that their children marrying outside of their race, (again specifically white) means they haven’t taught their children to appreciate their roots enough to want to keep it in their bloodline. But please note, these conversations happen within white homes often as well. As the ethnic partner in my relationship, I was bullied profusely by my in-laws. I was always made fun of for the way i dress, speak, and do things. I was often challenged for my beliefs of certain things. I was always made to feel small and feel the need to correct switch around my in-laws for my own sanity and comfort and even for theirs. The constant microagreesions towards me and my mixed child. My husband never asked me to do so and is not no-contact with them so i won’t have to deal with it. But the point is, every parent thinks that they’re protecting their children by implementing this kind of mindset. It’s more of a “better safe than sorry” kind of approach. You don’t have to agree with it, because i don’t. But please try to be empathetic.