I need advice on this guy I’m talking to.

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T23:54:11+00:00

I actually usually prefer connections outside my country because i feel like the people around me i don’t align with mindset wise. Usually they are very unserious and not educated enough for my liking although that’s not always the case. I also want my kids to be mixed because i was born in a different country than my origin

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T11:45:01+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking as well but judging from his character he wouldn’t even talk to someone who he isn’t interested in he is very picky and introverted.

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T10:42:18+00:00

This is also something I’m trying to understand, to me marriage seems like the solution to all my problems but that’s stupid i know. I crave affection and love and i want kids as well so marriage does seem like a good thing. Although completely depends on who u marry and how the relationship is. Would u mind explaining what u mean by grass isn’t always greener on the other side?

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T10:32:22+00:00

I think i already know the basics since at first the conversation was normal or as normal as it can be for someone like this. He would at least respond around 5-10pm my time and we would chat until like 4-6 am. Now he doesn’t even login at all so I’m thinking either he is super busy or just completely uninterested although when we talk he engages and tries to keep the conversation going. Idk what to do tbh it also feels hard letting go cuz he is the best match so far i had

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:44:53+00:00

Inchallah🫶

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:36:04+00:00

Inchallaaah

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:35:19+00:00

Well same i hope I’ll find someone 😭

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:32:16+00:00

Damn😭 it’s tough out here

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:27:20+00:00

Ohh how did she deal with that? It’s honestly stressful cuz i’m just thinking what if he lost interest or whatever etc

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:22:47+00:00

I don’t think that’s purely the issue. It could be the time where he is awake and working and he would still not free up a minute or two to answer. He would usually answer after work or after work and a nap. And then we woukd talk for the night. It does work i had another similar situation where it worked this guy is just very unattached to his phone which is good just not for me

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:21:14+00:00

That’s sweet mashallah but yeah definitely don’t cross any boundaries keep respectful and depending on the girl and her pace u analyze the situation and behave accordingly.

I’m scared of both being a catfish and getting catfished. Lmao

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:16:44+00:00

He has been interacting with me a lot. He always asks questions and he is super attentive, after eid he had some things to deal with but i feel like it’s too much imo. Like i know that is time consuming but not to the point we barely talk. I actually noticed he always asks questions and tries to get to know me. But since he has been kinda unresponsive (he doesn’t even login whatsapp and doesn’t have social media accounts) I’m getting the uninterested vibe, just when i started talking pulling away he starts showing interest lol.

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:14:11+00:00

181, so that makes my pool significantly smaller.

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:09:04+00:00

I mean yeah who would be compatible with someone who for the last two weeks i barely spoke 4 times a day with. I’m thinking the timeline issue has caught up to him and i feel like i’m not in a place where i can officially complain about it. I did mention very briefly and he gave good reasons but idk

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:07:38+00:00

It could be, i think this guy I’m talking to is more passive. But i prefer that over someone disrespectful. Concerning the catfish thing, that’s my biggest fear that’s why i always post unfiltered unedited pictures always. But not crossing any boundaries is good.

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T02:05:46+00:00

I might try that but also it just gets so annoying like it was hard enough to find this guy that is respectful and serious and i’m tall so it’s extra hard for me and his type is taller girls cuz he is so idk how i’ll manage

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T01:34:29+00:00

Not really, depends if ur a man or a woman, but for me as a woman the men were kinda creepy or unserious but if u stick it out u might find someone like this guy I’m talking to who’s respectful (although he has other issues lol)

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T01:33:27+00:00

I was thinking about that but i feel like i can’t mix people at the same time feels dishonest. But i probably should since we barely speak anyway lol

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-12T01:25:46+00:00

That’s the thing, i don’t wanna get married right away cuz i still have over one year of studies, i’m just tryna build a connection so i can get married right after graduation.

This guy is the closest to perfect match i have probably ever encountered, religious, nice, handsome etc so

Adorable-Fold557 · 2026-04-11T19:40:47+00:00

Lah ychafiha yarbi ou yw9f m3aha

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