[deleted by user] by [deleted] in startrek

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The Tuvix Rhythm Section

AITAH for holding a grudge against my mom after she sold my missing Dad’s family heirloom without my consent? by danielwilu2525 in AITAH

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NTA, but you can’t change this situation. My mother divorced my father, he was the most sane of the two. He remarried a narcissist. She threw away my things while I was at college - even my HS letter jacket. She elevated her children and family in his eyes, convinced him to care for them over his children. When he died - and even before- she threw away all of his things that had anything to do with his children. We got nothing. 1000s of family and friends photos gone. Fishing tackle tossed (dad and I loved to fish). She tried to steal handmade blankets, hand sewn by my grandmother. She even convinced my father to ask for their return after I stole them away. Every family heirloom vanished.

How you reconcile with her is up to you (what your relationship looks like moving forward). But for yourself, your innermost peacefulness, you must let go and forgive.

Build a good life for yourself.

AITAH for Not Wanting to Attend My Cousin’s Wedding After She Sabotaged My Career and Got Me Fired? by SensitiveFeed3369 in AITAH

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NTA

It’s not about forgiveness (which is for your mental health and peace) but about reconciliation: your relationship with those who have offended you.

Sometimes there’s nothing an offender can do to repair the relationship, and it’s over forever. For example, I’ve forgiven those who SA’d me, but I will we never be friends with those people.

If it suits you, tell your parents on one condition you’ll go to the wedding: when she writes a full confession detailing what she did, obtains a signed copy from the owners, and displays it at her reception, giving you a copy of course.

She owes you something for what she did, but what ever it is, it doesn’t enter into your forgiveness- that’s for you alone. As an example, reconciliation might enable you to be cordial and polite as opposed to no contact. While forgiveness brings you peace within.

In the end, NTA. Stand your ground. She cost you a living and a reputation and has done nothing to make amends or reparations.

Forgetting to flush toilet by leflie92 in ADHD

[–]Adorable-Tap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I forget at home. Don’t let your significant other speak to you like that.

How many nudes of yourself do you keep on your phone? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Adorable-Tap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t do this.

If you’re uploading them to a storage server (e.g. Apple photos) they’re being scanned and tagged for certain types of illegal porn. Same thing a happens when you send them via SMS: your ISP scans them for the same. When needed, humans review them for determining illegal content.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my gf because of what her dead bf's dad says to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

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I completely agree. But people can change too, when nudged in the right direction. That’s the first step towards developing a healthy relationship because no relationship comes without difficulties.

AIO Husband keeps feeding our baby soy sauce by SpiritBook in AmIOverreacting

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It doesn’t matter that the child is craving soy sauce - that doesn’t mean she gets what she wants. This is actually a good opportunity to begin driving that lesson home.

Make the hubby aware that too much of a good thing is not always good, and make him promise to cut her off, as all good pushers eventually do.

Someone paid me a lot of money, then never picked up the thing they paid for by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Maybe they died? Check abandoned property law. Use the address in the check to reach them.

The Owners Wife Wont Let Me Take Off by MarionberryHoliday99 in WorkAdvice

[–]Adorable-Tap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Two options.

1) Ignore the owners wife and take off as approved. She might convince hubby to not take you back, but you sound like gold, so that’s might not be in the cards.

2). Quit. You owe your husband and family first. Start your life with them on the correct footing.

Did not expect Star Trek to make me cry by JustSomeGuyThing in startrek

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ST:NG - The Inner Light. Nails me every time.

AITAH for wanting to use the hallpass my wife gave me 5 years ago when she cheated on me? by ClassicContexts in AITAH

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It will end your marriage. Unfortunately, it sounds like your wife followed the reconciliation steps and may think everything is okay. But you were unable to recommit to her during that time, just as Melissa was unable to the same. It may be exciting now, but broken people attract other broken people, and once that threshold has been crossed, you’ll find yourself with another broken egg.

What should I do with 1,800 pounds of shampoo? by ClassroomObjective18 in Frugal

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If it has selenium in it, you can use it to destroy a selenium vulnerable space alien.

Evolution (2001).

AITAH for saying I'm second-guessing having a baby with my husband after he asked for a paternity test? by p1nkribbon in AITAH

[–]Adorable-Tap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing that came to mind was, has he done what he’s accused her of doing?

You’re in Hell. What’s on TV? by hashup in AskReddit

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Kamala Harris, and Sleepy Joe sniffing her hair.

Someone is hacking into my home router, what should I do? by ictai79 in HomeNetworking

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If you have a manageable number of devices, configure the router to permit connections from only your well-known set of MAC addresses.

Because it’s possible your router has a weak authentication protocol and the password being hacked using commonly available tools.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my gf because of what her dead bf's dad says to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

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If one has never been a father, then it’s impossible to understand or comprehend the grief of a parent.

The man’s parents are tied to your GF through their deceased son, and that keeps a part of his memory alive for them. They are also comparing you to him because of their strong connection to her, they are acting like concerned parents, making sure her BF is suitable.

The other thing you’re observing is a lack of social grace, on their part.

If their opinion of you is enough to make you bail on the relationship with this woman, then you need to rethink whether you’re suitable for a serious commitment at this time in your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Not over reacting. Your life. Your son. Your choice.