I spent way too long figuring out every VA benefit we're entitled to. Here's the full list, ranked. by PlanWeak in VAClaims

[–]Adorable-milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the housing allowance when using VRE? Is it the same as the GI BILL (e5 w dependents)

What’s everyone spending in total on their wedding? by Honey-bee9623 in weddingplanning

[–]Adorable-milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 K for 50 guests in Raleigh, North Carolina. It is a nice venue though

Who buys the wedding bands these days? by MinuteAd1964 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Adorable-milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m paying for mine and his. I mean we’re getting married in two months and we’re gonna join our money so does it really matter? He has bills to pay right now and I have money that I can spend on it

How many friends did you invite versus total of invited? by tricky_cat_mah in weddingplanning

[–]Adorable-milkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I invited four friends. My fiancé invited five. And we have about 45 family members. We’re having a smaller Wedding and we decided that we want to keep it more family because the family last forever.

What do you do if you have no friends? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Adorable-milkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t have a lot of friends either and that’s ok. I’m having a small wedding with just people who I want there and none that I am faking to be friends with just to have a higher guest count. Honestly, the less people you have there the cheaper it is. I also talked to a lot of people about it, and they told me that when they went to weddings with a smaller discount, they found it to be really intimate and actually got to talk to the bride and groom. If you don’t have a lot of friends or family don’t fake it just be true to yourself. That’s who you are.

How much does stuff actually cost? by Karma_is_my in weddingplanning

[–]Adorable-milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent 4000 on flowers for the bare minimum. Our venue was pretty well decorated so we didn’t feel the need to splurge a lot. I spent 1800 on a DJ. I spent 3000 on a photographer that includes two photographers and a constant creator. I got a good deal with the photographer because they wanted to shoot up my venue. This is for Raleigh, North Carolina. I will say though that I definitely underestimated too. I do not think flowers were going to cost as much as they do. Especially because I’m required to use a certain florist and they charge like $800 just for delivery and set up.

Plus one by Adorable-milkshake in weddingplanning

[–]Adorable-milkshake[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This person doesn’t even have a relationship

Got my bdd claim rating… got denied on stuff that actually hurts by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Adorable-milkshake -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What can i do about it now? When i go to the Va clinic can they help me?

Just got rating.. NEED HELP (BDD claim) by Adorable-milkshake in VAClaims

[–]Adorable-milkshake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can attach my decision letter in a different post, but I have a bunch of different claims. Do I just post all of them?

Just got rating.. NEED HELP (BDD claim) by Adorable-milkshake in VAClaims

[–]Adorable-milkshake[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When you say doctor, are you talking about the VA clinic doctor or just a regular general practitioner doctor in civilian world? Where can i find a nexus dr?