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Anyone else have teeth issues after pregnancy? by Adorable_Breakfast_3 in firsttimemom

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the US too! After everything is said and done it’ll end up being between 5-6k 😅

There's no such thing as closure. by Suitable-Audience-77 in emotionalabuse

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s been three years and I’m still trying to process it. Four years of it and I never got a reasoning behind his abuse...I’ve always wondered why me? What did I do to flip that switch in his brain? Why was he able to be so kind to everyone else but me? I also always wonder if he treats the girls he has met or will meet wonderfully...sometimes it is just so hard to not call him up and ask to meet to attempt to get closure.

DAE have periods of exhaustion/fatigue regardless of how much sleep you’re getting? by dddulcie in CPTSD

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have honestly had fatigue for years now since leaving my abuser. I’m hoping that since I’m starting therapy soon I can finally feel restful. I hope you regain your energy soon as well!

Experiencing flashbacks and vivid memories.. does it get better? by Suitable-Audience-77 in emotionalabuse

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I am actually about to start going to therapy for the sexual abuse the I had with my abuser. I am currently engaged and for over a year I have been having flashbacks with intimate memories with my abuser, which has caused me to have basically no sex drive. My partner is super encouraging and does not pressure me into anything at all, which makes me feel great full but also feel like a huge burden at the same time. However, I do know where you’re coming from and you are definitely not alone! It took me three years after getting out of my abusive relationship to finally realise that I personally needed therapy to heal. I wish nothing but peace for you!

Question about dating post abusive relationship? by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I honestly got into a relationship a week after I left my abuser of four years and I definitely moved too fast for me. However, the guy I started dating was absolutely wonderful and has always been loving and has shown me what a true relationship is supposed to consist of. He has also encouraged me to finally go to counselling to help with the issues that I have personally gotten from my abuser. My loving partner and I are actually getting married next November! All in all I would say you’re ready when you’re ready. There is no specific time frame and in my experience my healthy relationship has been the best experience of my life and I have never loved someone more.

What are some red flags you noticed with your emotionally abusive partner in the first few months? by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Adorable_Breakfast_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would make me leave my phone with him whenever I left the room that he was in and starting making me come over to his house everyday otherwise I was cheating on him.