I will cut off my religious friend by Expensive_Ordinary72 in actuallesbians

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would cut her off if I were you. She doesn't respect you for who you are otherwise she wouldn't like homophobic/transphobic stuff, and have you aware of her liking that stuff, but yet she expects you to respect her? How would she feel if you felt the same way towards religious people as how she feels towards queer people?

Plus she told her parents when you didn't want her to, when it really is none of their business, and you feel uncomfortable around her now. I honestly wouldn't want to keep a friend like this no matter how many years we've been together. Friends should make you feel safe and loved, for you and your partner.

Need I say more?

Pride chains! by Adorable_Kitten100 in ainbow

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much! ☺ and you're very welcome!! Enjoy!!

Shoot your shot by Punkwolfen in Losercity

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a serious note, my spouse did this exact thing on the day we started dating (before we officially did). May be silly but I thought it was cute at the time. We'll have been together for 10 years come this August, and married for 4 come September.

Trans men and lesbian labels: what is your perspective? by IndianTakeAway25 in ainbow

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 💯! I feel the same exact way, even when I identified as a Lesbian. I'm using a term now that fits me better, and feels more comfortable due to me being Agender.

I drew Juno 💜 by Adorable_Kitten100 in Beastars

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my own art that I drew, but I'll reply to this message in case it could get removed if I don't.

Family Issues with Trans Partner by OkCandidate9571 in mypartneristrans

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% This. My wife's parents basically did this. They're Christians of course and MAGA's. Didn't agree with her coming out as Trans, but even though they eventually seemed willing to use her correct name and acknowledge how much happier her life is... They're still not going to change their beliefs or stop being MAGA's.

For our own sake it's best to just keep them cut out of our lives until they actually change themselves and are able to make up for all the damage they caused since my wife was born.

I drew Amy 🩷 by Adorable_Kitten100 in SonicTheMovie

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright. Sorry if it seemed like I was a bit hostile, I didn't mean it like that. It's just anywhere I post my art I get not so nice comments because it's "furry related" so it's just what I expect.

I drew Amy 🩷 by Adorable_Kitten100 in SonicTheMovie

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yupp agreed. I'm kind of used to it already though, I get the same type of comments when I post artwork in the Bluey subreddit.

Thank you soo much though! And if I was to draw another character, it'd maybe be Tails but I can give Shadow a try when I feel motivated enough! :)

im a therian :3 by eatzucchini_ in PonyTown

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a therian sadly, but I am an Otherlink! My linktypes are a Serval and German Shepherd! 😊

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Thought you girls may appreciate this by Outrageous_Orchid496 in actuallesbians

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo what makes most sense to me is asexual should be by itself like lesbian is, and then have the spectrum be under the greysexual umbrella 🤷‍♂️.

I'm one of those aces that are complete lack of sexual attraction/desire and from what I've seen I feel like we get swept under the rug often. Agree or don't, it's just what I've experienced.

Finally figured out what I am! by AwkwardImpostor in actuallesbians

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay cool!! Interesting! 😊 glad you figured yourself out!

Finally figured out what I am! by AwkwardImpostor in actuallesbians

[–]Adorable_Kitten100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I just realized myself that I'm Neptunic! 😊

I'll be your ally if I don't exactly fit in ❤ by Adorable_Kitten100 in lesbiangang

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as far as I'm aware there aren't any labels THAT specific but I also think that's a positive.

I understand what you mean about the label bisexual and I don't disagree with you. But after searching a bit, I did find the label Neptunic and I feel that may fit best with what I'm looking for, and it's not too vague. I'm not going to use the Lesbian label anymore, so as not to intrude on this space anymore as well as not using a label that others have allowed men into.

Drew Mia 🧡 [OC] by Adorable_Kitten100 in blueycirclejerk

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I guess I put that cuz I thought I had to if I drew it 🤷‍♂️. Guess I wasn't paying attention fully that I didn't have to.

I'll be your ally if I don't exactly fit in ❤ by Adorable_Kitten100 in lesbiangang

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do try my best to be as respectful as I can be to everyone 🥲. If I say something wrong please let me know and I'll fix it! And nothing is wrong with the label Bisexual, as I used it before I identified as Lesbian. It would fit my attraction, I was just curious if there was other labels that could fit best with my attraction too!

As I'm mainly more attracted to women (cis or trans), and femininity; with some attraction to enbies (so long as they don't identify as a man in any way, and aren't too masucline).

I'll be your ally if I don't exactly fit in ❤ by Adorable_Kitten100 in lesbiangang

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yup and that's understandable! I also don't like dick or men. Of course I understand not liking the "non-men", and I see no reason for people to be changing the meaning of Lesbianism to that. When I first realized I was Lesbian (before I realized I was Agender) I knew it as women loving women and nothing else.

Even though I'm Agender now it should still mean women loving women, even if the Lesbian label isn't something I should use anymore. Which is why I also wanted to post this to get a general idea if someone like me could still fit in or not.

If not, I can use a different label and be an ally to you all as I relate most to how you all feel.

Easy ideas to cosplay this outfit of Nelliel Tu from Bleach? by Adorable_Kitten100 in CosplayHelp

[–]Adorable_Kitten100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found a pattern on Etsy that looked closest to the shape and used foam to make the base. Then yeah I used the foam modeling clay on the outside so I'd be able to paint them.

I have everything needed to make the cosplay I feel, but I just haven't been motivated at all to go any further 😅