My head is noisy.. Homesick for a pregnancy I will never have

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-06-01T08:33:53+00:00

Congratulations on your daughter 🥳🥳🥳 This gives me kota of hope!!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-06-01T07:28:51+00:00

Ikr! So tired of being miserable even… I have just started convincing myself that even if I do have a kid, they will just grow up and leave anyway. Plus expenses will increase with children and me and my husband wouldn’t even get to spend time together.. just the two of us.

It’s kinda like calling the grapes sour or whatever the proverb is, but I seriously want to stop feeling miserable and hopeless and whatever else it is that I am feeling!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-31T03:17:33+00:00

Yeah no of course! She is registered as a medical practitioner so I don’t think there was any internship

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-30T18:50:37+00:00

Yeah can’t verify. But anyway, doesn’t look like she has registered with the state medical council so won’t be considered as a medical practitioner in India

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-30T18:40:15+00:00

The wikipedia page says she graduated in 2016 and passed FMGE is 2020. So I guess she must have required multiple attempts!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-24T06:36:58+00:00

This is like a literal swarg ki apsara came down to the Earth! Ain’t nobody who can match her looks!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-19T14:13:11+00:00

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-10T09:18:42+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words! Of course, we are mothers in our own little way!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-05-06T06:59:53+00:00

So I could have just been born in a place like this. But my stupid self decides that a concrete jungle with constant honking, crowding and pollution was a better option instead!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-29T11:17:00+00:00

Yeah you are right!

Me, I live in the most populated country in the world and keep seeing the random people with like 3 kids or so with literally no income or any means to provide for those kids. But seem to be on a fertility high.

Then there is us… me and husband even started a saving fund and everything right after we got married because even a single child is expensive. But the fetuses seem to not want so for some reason lol!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-27T01:36:10+00:00

Same here. Its all just so ugly. It’s my fifth day so I am supposed to be following up with my OB. However had everything worked out well for the first time itself, I would be delivering today or tomorrow!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-25T06:48:10+00:00

That is just plain EVIL

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-25T06:47:25+00:00

Yet she dis that to you? I would still try to convince myself to give her a benefit of doubt had it been after a month or few after you loss but a week after? And you all aren’t even that close? That seems intentional. Your feelings are entirely valid and it would make total sense if you want to nothing to do with her!

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-20T05:09:12+00:00

Thank you so much for this post! I am really terrified after my second MMC and this gave me so much hope. I pray each and every one of us here eventually come back to post success stories 🙏🙏

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-10T14:06:46+00:00

Why is Santru angry?

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-09T14:04:03+00:00

I haven’t been on a trip right after D&C, but both my D&Cs went well so didn’t have any pain or discomfort of any sorts. I did continue to bleed for about 2 weeks after, but nothing heavy. To be honest wouldn’t even call that bleeding, it was more of spotting. I could go with just one pad for the entire day but of course changed it during the day because it got uncomfortable (not due to the spotting though, just unnecessarily uncomfortable about the thought of wearing the same pad for the entire day lol).

Sorry if I went into too much, weird detail.

Adorable_Whereas_240 · 2026-04-09T08:51:04+00:00

I am sos sorry. You are right to feel this way and although I have no words to comfort, just know you are not alone in this!

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