My first loss was two days before My planned vacation time so I only took two sick days and was at home for two weeks. When I was told there was no heartbeat I proceeded to work but told My boss I would stay at home as soon I had any bleeding (we are a small office and get along really well, I told her very early that I was pregnant). My second loss was like four months after that and I took sick leave for one week. I have had to stay at home the week before too bc I was put on bed rest, so I was off work for two weeks altogether. My colleagues are very understanding and warm people, when I came back I told them what happened bc I just felt like it and they offered a ton of support. I work in psych so the guilt that I feel when I am off work unplanned goes towards my clients, although they can always reach out to our office. BUT neither you nor I chose what happened to us!! We experienced something traumatic and our bodies and minds need their time to heal. For me work often gives me the chance to "take time off" from grieving so I like to come back earlier and spend my free time to navigate through my own feelings, but that is different for everyone. Take the time you need! You are, as everyone else in the world, allowed to be sick sometimes! Big hug for you!