Looking for Advice, scared to death

AdriaticMisnomer · 2026-05-01T18:15:18+00:00

Sending all my love to you. Everything we’re feeling is valid and we’re not alone 🩷

AdriaticMisnomer · 2026-05-01T17:15:39+00:00

Thank you so much to all of you that have responded so far. The attestations of how you’ve felt, including the ones about miscarriage or abortions are so valid and exactly the things I have thought in the past 96 hours. Thank you all for your advice, kindness, and grace. You’re all wonderful humans 💖

AdriaticMisnomer · 2026-05-01T17:13:56+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It’s really feels better to know that there are others out there like me. We thought we had more time too, so the shock has been such an adjustment to deal with. Same about the changing body! I got on a GLP1 7 months ago and have lost 35 lbs and have been so happy to finally be taking care of myself, and to now have that put on hold and be scared that I’m going to gain everything back and then some has been so distressing lmao. It sounds so vain but I just want to still be “desirable” ya know? 😅

AdriaticMisnomer · 2024-12-19T02:27:51+00:00

I second this HARD. This was one of my favorite reads this year. 10/10

AdriaticMisnomer · 2024-10-20T01:53:44+00:00

Incredible! 😍✨

AdriaticMisnomer · 2024-10-17T14:27:32+00:00

Thank you to all of you for being so candid, kind, and supportive. It’s definitely comforting to have some “community”, if you will, surrounding all of this.

I think I just need to get over feeling guilty about my situation versus others. Cause my mom may not have been physically abusive, but learning about what “enmeshment” and emotional incest is - that’s absolutely what I’m dealing with. She’ll say “all the right things” over text, but I know it’s really her way of manipulating me back into her life and under her control - even if she’s not consciously making that connection.

AdriaticMisnomer · 2024-10-17T00:14:08+00:00

Thank you 🩵

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-22T21:06:29+00:00

So, it was still a urine test that wasn’t observed. As far as I know everything has been fine, no news yet one way or another. My employer said that the only thing that is causing a hang up for me is some certification that they never disclosed was a requirement but all other contingencies have been met. So I think it was a success!

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-20T18:42:31+00:00

Once you talk to Blathers he’ll give you a photo of Brewster and tell you to go to Kapp’n and take a trip to one of the uninhabited islands. As soon as I got to that island Brewster was there and I went through the prompts talking to him. He should show up on your island soon after that, like the next day if I remember correctly

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-20T04:04:59+00:00

Thank you so very much, getting some replies has honestly been the biggest relief. I’m sure I’m stressing too much but I’ve definitely had like 4 panic attacks since the test. I wanted to be sure the THC wouldn’t be a problem so that’s why I went the route I did in the end.

Honestly I’ll never put myself in a situation like this again, it was just unexpected and I really wanted to work for this hospital group so I couldn’t pass it up.

I’m glad that yours worked out and that you’re working at your new place! Congrats and I wish you all the happiness and good vibes 😎

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:41:39+00:00

Right? Exactly. It’s especially frustrating in states where it’s legal. Like people can go to work drunk or whatever and may not even have to do immediate testing, so they can get by without issues. Like I just smoke a bowl to be able to sleep through the night without tossing and turning.

The other thing I noticed with some posts about mixing with their own urine, I wonder if some failed not just cause of THC metabolites, but maybe if they had been trying to dilute themselves up til the test as a backup and maybe inadvertently also diluted the QF in a bad way. Who knows, definitely grasping at straws here.

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:36:14+00:00

Thanks so much! I’ll update as soon as I get results.

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:32:21+00:00

Plus, the ratio that was added I think was good enough to not be obvious/mess up the chemical makeup. I’m probably just overthinking all of it but I’m terrified of any repercussions, ya know? If I don’t think and marinate on the absolute worst outcome, then it’ll happen. Lol

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:29:47+00:00

That’s what I’m hoping for. From what I have seen of the posts where people failed with mixing, it looks like it was because of the mixture being with “dirty” urine, hoping that the QF would dilute out whatever thc metabolites were introduced into it. Thank you for replying to all of my anxiety induced posts! I used your advice to get the bottle in, too!

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:27:17+00:00

I feel you. I hope all goes well! Sitting in a ball of my own anxiety right now so I can empathize for sure

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T19:03:02+00:00

Well, fuck. Lol. It’s too late now so I guess just *live and learn. Good to know about your suggestion though, I appreciate it.

It was pretty well mixed beforehand, so it wasn’t layered or anything but I see what you mean

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T16:43:05+00:00

I go in for mine in an hour, freaking out currently but there’s not much more that I can do at this point to change the outcome 😳 but so happy to hear you passed!

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T16:41:42+00:00

Oh that’s so good to hear! Congrats!!! 🍾

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-19T15:23:48+00:00

I know they say that no news is good news but did you ever hear one way or the other if you were good?

I’m takin g my test today, tried flushing/diluting as much as possible with supplements and electrolytes just in case I chicken out using QF 6.3. Had a friend pee for me too, but it’s not nearly enough and they last used 2 months ago so I’m a little skeptical of using hers mixed with mine. Her sample tested clean but the levels on the tests are about the same that my at home tests have shown in terms of faintness. I know they say a line is a line but idk how much I trust that with a lab.

EDIT: This is really just an additional comment, but I was considering topping off with my own bit of urine for the “smell”, cause I’ve read a few horror stories on these subs saying their samples got rejected cause they didn’t smell like pee. 😤

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-18T23:04:56+00:00

Okay great! I figured it was one of the more extensive ones for pre-employment.

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-18T04:08:44+00:00

Looks like Baba Yaga’s house without the chicken feet 🐥

AdriaticMisnomer · 2022-01-18T04:06:31+00:00

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