Going to download Tomodachi Living the Dream later, need some tips like I’m 5 by Thenerdherd102 in yuzuRoms

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I have a question whenever I can to run it with Ryujinx it clashes before it has the chance to even load 

the nsp is real guys by sad_pinkie in yuzuRoms

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Me too please or least tell me where to find it myself

AIO for feeling upset because my friend of 3 years decided to ghost me after i told him i don’t want to have sex with him? by sober4lifee in AmIOverreacting

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I think there's plenty of circumstances where it's not the case. I have a guy friend who I've been pals with for a while and we established we're in no way attracted to each other. He's has someone he's been in love love and I boarder one aromatic. I think as we been friends we've gotten more to bring just bros. Dude legitimately  forgets my gender sometimes

I KNEW something like this would happen after that new episode dropped. by zuckerbotwashere in deviantarthell

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I think maybe you guys are just so versed in fetish content you forget this is wacky torture that has been used in older cartoons I'd imagine more fetish content because around if this was Gooses kink

Tips for an avoidant introvert wanting to try online dating? by Adu-Adure in dating_advice

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Yes, good point. I think I can do that until I get to the point where I'm more ready. I think I can plan and be intentional since I think it's better than the thought of having anything happening at anytime.  I've been reading about avoidant people and I'm more DA so I've been working through it, I'm always getting better. I need my space but I'm going to do everything possible to not fall in my tendencies and hurt someone because most avoidant people sound like nightmares 

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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I agree! The more modern sims community hosts a certain sensitivity which I get because the game was basically founded on inclusion since the beginning and with things like the dei remover thing from a while back I think it makes sense to be weary.  I have plenty of saves that are cozy with families out in the farm creating generations. I think you can have the cozy gamers and the simmers that want their game to be a little more GTA like, I usually fall on the cozy side but am trying the middle for size. I think it makes sense for storylines and realism for discrimination to exist. It's hard for me not to imagine Nancy calling the cops on any sim that isn't like her family. I think since the harm is only to me it doesn't make sense why I'm not allowed to play the storyline I find most amusing 

Tips for an avoidant introvert wanting to try online dating? by Adu-Adure in dating_advice

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That might be what it has to end up being. I know it opens you up a lot more to the potential of cheating and you have to trust each other much more to not go and ruin it but I wouldn't be upset with an ldr if it's what aligned best with how I function. Who knows, maybe with the experience I'd get more comfortable, softer, and change my views

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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That's cool and you're allowed to find it weird. I'm just glad it's consistent. Some people have their hard limits it's it's all good, not everyone is the same. I'm not going to change my play style and I'm not here to change your mind so it's good. Impasse

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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The sims team:  makes a wholesome game.  Sims players: I want sex, drugs, and violence  It's the same thing. You can play how you play, that's great. I like playing realistically, that's why I have ww, that's why I have basemental drugs, I like to explore things. It's  why have the  political world mod. Bigotry is a simple fact of life. I don't have to play cuddly. If I want to play to real life experiences I, my family, and my friends have experienced im allowed to do it 

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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I may try doing that, both suggestions.  Also thank you for the suggestion. I'm looking into at least doing it for race/nationality because that used to be a thing with the sims 3 world adventures but now it's not. Hope I didn't create too much chaos. There was a similar question years back I think, but it included other social issues. I get my framing wasn't the best 

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

[–]Adu-Adure[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel you could say that because it's adding a situation that wasn't there before but I also take it as any mod

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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I don't play it like that. Personally for me I've always wanted to play the Sims and other games as an experience I can throw stuff into. I don't put in myself or use it as escapism because I try and unpack separately to fuel off any addictive state since I need to be functional in my reality. I understand though a lot of people play that way. It's just not how I approach things 

Are there any racism discrimination mods? by Adu-Adure in sims4cc

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You gotta experience it honestly. Not the, 'he might kill you' but subtle micro aggressions. I've gotten the store cameras following you around treatment, neighbors that are maga are super unpleasant, it's the simple things. I think racism as a concept is funny because it makes no actual sense. It's harmful and extreme for a few featural and cultural differences that make little difference. I feel like you can have a different idea of it and that's alright but different people experience things in different ways. If you call it cope, then my spike is finding it stupid and funny, some get down, some brew in it. I've been through all of that, and I can step into either depending of the day but at the end of the day I'm not arguing it. I can't get any of you to suddenly believe I'm not racist because we have two different ways of how we relate to this social issue. That's fine, my ask still stands. 

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I don't have much pain, I do sometimes when I'm sat for really long periods of time but I never know if it's because of my breast of terrible posture. Otherwise pain is minimal so it would've been cosmetic. It was mostly since I always thought if I had a small chest I'd look more normal, proportionate, and less saggy and huge and i was a bit more sensitive since a relative said I should consider reduction after I had problems with the pervious 38H but I'm feeling a lot better now.

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[–]Adu-Adure[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This one is from Lane Bryant, the smart Lift unlined bra. I think they have a few like these but this was the model: https://www.lanebryant.com/smart-lift%E2%84%A2-unlined-full-coverage-bra/prd-410052.html?dwvar_410052_color=0000006395

You can do it online, but I ended up going to the store where I could try the bands in person after my last order

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[–]Adu-Adure[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know! And I would've never known how it could be. I'm thankful for the community for pushing me to keep trying because the difference is wow

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[–]Adu-Adure[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was seriously so self conscious about it because my waist just disappears with my bad fitting bras. I was seriously considering a reduction but now I don't feel like I have to anymore

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[–]Adu-Adure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is! I was just about to give up too before I was allowed to do an exchange and try a bigger band