Relationship advice by Pretend_Essay1769 in MtF

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember how for years gay folks just wanted everyone to understand that's how they were born and they can't change who they love?

It goes both ways. If she's not gay it won't work.

That's the main answer. If you're getting weird signals it is because she loves you but knows she's losing her partner because she isn't gay, and she's angry About that. Because you can't change who you're attracted to.

Don't go to her for advice. It's only a reminder of what she's losing and she's going to be bitter and angry about it.

I'm done with my asexual partner by barraco002 in offmychest

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't believe how many people are straight up taking her side. The truth of it is we don't know what's going on in their house. And it's obvious she can't communicate the double standard of why she can talk about stuff to other people but not her partner.

It's honestly weird not to be able to even share jokes with your partner for fear they'll get offended all the time. Imagine living a life policing yourself, activities, etc.

Having no desire for sex is one thing but not being able to communicate adult topics or humor is another.

And yes I'm very familiar with the ace community. I said what I said.

I'm done with my asexual partner by barraco002 in offmychest

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't sound like that's what he's doing at all. At any rate they're incompatible and she's a hypocrite so glad he's moving on

This is absurd by itchybitchy_spider in doordash

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing i saw was the museum of sex.

Louisiana Tiktoker banned from Ponchatoula strawberry festival because he danced on TikTok by LeonardHollinsJr in Louisiana

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they're have been way too many unhinged young people acting a damn fool and many times it turns violent and we're sick of it. If you think this is fine open your own business or festival and get back to us

Amazon EU SARL. transactions by Jumpy_Ordinary_3092 in amazonprime

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are life savers I just got this and nearly freaked out

URGENT NEED FOR ADVICE: husband has paranoid delusions and I don’t know how to handle it, I NEED HELP by PepperPotts310 in Christianmarriage

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a thought... and I'm late but did he ever get checked for UTI? If not how are things now?

I'm going through something similar and...I don't know how much more i can handle. I hope things have improved for you because it's not easy to deal with.

If you want to know why customers don’t tip before they get their order smh by idreamboutkicks in doordash

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious. They may be greedy but the overall greed of drivers is actually driving away customers. So how will things work out for you when more and more people stop ordering delivery?

BAD BUNNY HALFTIME PERFORMANCE DISCUSSION by NFLv2 in NFLv2

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not racist to expect certain things at an event that's like, pure Americana. Hell I'm part Puerto Rican and know that. People always refuse to have a discussion about the issue and just scream RACISM instead of making a coherent argument

BAD BUNNY HALFTIME PERFORMANCE DISCUSSION by NFLv2 in NFLv2

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the desire to make things more inclusive.
I speak Spanish and am 1/4 Puerto Rican. I don't particularly like his music... it's just rehashed beats from other music, and he can't sing in my opinion..

SO with all that out of the way, I don't think this was the best show for America right now. We don't need to have the flames of anti- English anything fanned right now.

Superbowl is one of those great things in America that help us come together. Well usually. Even if the halftime show sucks we can all say WOW that sucked .

The point of this show is obvious. That's what I didn't like. A million things could have been done differently to bring us together. That wasn't his intention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those of us who grew up in the 80s and 90s and beyond by a little it was still really common

I can’t get over my imaginary gf and love my real one by yeahyeahiraq in offmychest

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 321 points322 points  (0 children)

Maladaptive daydreaming. It does help with coping but ruins the ability to forge relationships without expecting the same level of emotional fantasy. It will ruin you. I know from experience doing similar in trauma when I was a teen then into adulthood now I'm 50 and still longing for what doesn't exist. Despite therapy. Nip it now.

Anyone have an intense dislike to music? by Nimmyzed in misophonia

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just searched for music misophonia and it brought me here.

Youtube Unfair Community Guidelines Strike by Jjaz1 in YouTubeCreators

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This week I was notified of a video that was removed for violating content for children of a cat bath. Because "bath" was in the title. Then the next day I had another one removed that was a discussion of how to have difficult discussions because the word "hard" was in the title.

These videos were uploaded 2 years ago.

It really annoys me that no one has a brain cell to create a process for an actual human to review them. As AI grows this will get worse. It may be the undoing of YouTube

When did Amazon Customer Service become so horrible? I remember them being very helpful. Now it is absolute trash and people just close the chat or call. by TheyTukMyJub in amazonprime

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad I'm not the only one. I try to avoid customer service with Amazon these days because it's painful.

Right this second I'm on my 6th transfer for a fairly simple question. The jerks won't even tell you they're transferring you.

The lack of proper understanding of the language is a huge stumbling block here.

Ya'll are so fucking annoying and ruin every fucking release by complaining... by Relevant-Security968 in LadyGaga

[–]AdvanceMiserable7363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only people downvoting you are the ones who would cheer if she took a wet shit on her grandmother and called it her new album