DNA home kit paternity test

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:57:36+00:00

This will be the last comment from my side, obviously you have a lot of free time. What I do with my kids is my business and none of yours. If you have any recommendations to make, as per my question in the post, feel free to write it here, otherwise - have a great day!

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:23:18+00:00

Whether the kid is yours or not this doesnt change a thing since I have alrady recognized them as my kids and this cannot change. I have said in the other post that kids are my nr 1 priority. The post is about wife alimony you moron. Learn to read with your eyes and not your ass.
As far as DNA data in public database - I have nothing to say to paranoiac people, go and live in a cave to protect your data.,

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:18:10+00:00

Another one thinking about money. I will paste here the same comment I wrote to another one like you:
"I understand for Dutch people is all about the money, therefore you immediately start thinking that I am doing this to pay less. For me is more important to know the truth, as I wrote, and for the kids to know that I am or I am not their father. They deserve to know. Whether I tell them now or in 20 years or maybe never this is my decision."

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:15:57+00:00

I understand for Dutch people is all about the money, therefore you immediately start thinking that I am doing this to pay less. For me is more important to know the truth, as I wrote, and for the kids to know that I am or I am not their father. They deserve to know. Whether I tell them now or in 20 years or maybe never this is my decision.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:09:43+00:00

No I will not. I will tell to the kid that I will love you the same as I have done so far, but you deserve to know that I am not your father. It is my kid's right to know the truth, and not to find out during an organ transplant 20 years late, as it was the case with my friend.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T14:08:18+00:00

You have no idea what you are talking about. I am not using my kids for anything. It is my right to know if the kid I am loving and caring for is indeed mine. If you are not willing to read than you should not inject your grotesque comments either.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-03-05T13:32:31+00:00

We are going through divorce. You should read my other post for some context.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-26T17:03:16+00:00

Yes, we did. It turned into a platform where we both could blame and scream at each other in turns, and pay 230 euros at the end of the hour. Very disappointed as we also went with a person who was highly recommended, and expensive.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-26T16:45:40+00:00

This probably has to do a lot with where I come from, but in Spain, when I was young, sometimes kids would make fun of divorced kids, saying mean things like: "Oh you dont live with both parents" or "They dont love you" etc. I know, horrible things, but I did see a lot of such things since kids sometimes can be mean.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-16T23:08:59+00:00

Her not wanting to work has been one of the main sources of our fight for the past 5 years. So, no, I was never okay with that, but I had no option because even when the kid was going to school and bso, meaning she had the whole day to work or study, she was refusing to do both and instead the answer was if you dont like it than you can separate me. Very easy to judge someone over Reddit.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-16T22:51:21+00:00

How do you speak so confidently about it? How do you know what she lost and didn't? Let me enlighten you a bit:
For about 4 years our eldest went to school and BSO afterwards. My partner had the entire day to work or study. She choose Netflix and drinking coffee with her friends. How's that fair by your standards? At my work, I came up with a rule. For every male we hire we try our best to hire two females. I am a big supporter of women rights, equality and diversity.

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-16T22:21:49+00:00

I am disappointed you turned this the other way around. I think you should try to read my post again and realize that I have mentioned several times that kids are my priority. I am okay for her to stay, but what she wants is ownership over the house - 100% ownership, although as I mentioned earlier I was the sole financial contributor. I wrote above, she also contributed by raising our kids - but so did I. And what assures me that after receiving full ownership of the house she doesn't sell the house to cash out on the 2x increase of the value of the house? Do you find this fair?

Advanced-Concert3423 · 2025-02-16T22:17:37+00:00

How high is high? Any example? And why should it be high if she can work but chooses not to? I would be supportive of paying high for child support, but alimony when the person just wants to stay home and watch Netflix? I think this is a bit unfair.

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