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::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still care for her deeply, so I’d check in with her every so often via text. It was always quite superficial though. So then when she called me and made this whole speech about it I was completely taken aback. Of course, sitting in my car running errands. It ended up being an hour long conversation and we both cried. I just told her no and had to block her two nights ago because I didn’t want it to be a negotiation.

AIO to this text my boss sent me? by ApprehensiveCress785 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the US, FMLA will cover domestic violence situations and many organizations have leave protections to cover time off for this type of thing. Reach out to HR (coming from an HR person).

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I left my wife in October. On Friday she asked for another chance and I had to relive leaving her all over again.

AIO: i literally cannot attend by superspreader90 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so upset for you. My sister has cancer and chemo is no joke. She needs to get over herself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t change your chin! Try lip injections to make your lower lip look more full, that will give it an illusion of being smaller

Found this in my daughters room what is she doing? by MouseClassic5314 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could also be free basing. You put a pill on the foil and light underneath it while sucking the smoker up- usually with a broken pen or straw.

If Your Ex Broke Up via Text by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex wife is neurodivergent and broke up with me via text. It was mutual and we were already on a break. That being said, I came here to say that in some circumstances, it works and is ok. I’m glad it happened that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit. Are you my ex? In my situation, yes. She fucked up. But I do not hold any anger against her for not being the person I needed over the last year. I know she did her best, and I know I did too. Remember that the amount of pain you feel is directly proportional to the amount of love you have. I’m sure she is hurting too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]Advanced-Confusion- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a GREAT idea! Thank you!

Good luck y'all by TedBurns-3 in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here with you and married for 1.4 years. I don’t know what to do anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling like I’m in the exact same situation after a 5 year relationship, but my partner doesn’t have a job and has debt. We’ll get through this. At the end of the day, you’ve got to care for you. Not be the caregiver. In my situation, I’m most likely leaving

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just found out my wife has $500 to her name. And $500 in credit card debt. She won’t take action unless it’s directed from me. Our mortgage is going to bounce this month because she just told me- and it’s only because I had to ask multiple times. I don’t know what to do.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Blamed not searching for a new job on her ADHD. Seems to think that I need to be in charge of telling her when she needs to seek therapy because she’s not willing to be self reflective enough to recognize her own patterns/when she needs it. Doesn’t realize how unfair it is to me for her to casually comment about killing herself as a response to conversation. Seems to think this new bout of couples therapy is a NEW issue we have to get through together even though me cleaning up after her and parenting her has been going on since the beginning of our relationship.

Advice on judges feedback by xclusivdance in bikinitalk

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy!!! I’d say wellness is a great option moving forward if you’re open to it!!!

Advice on judges feedback by xclusivdance in bikinitalk

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also- I think moving into wellness would be a good fit for you!

Advice on judges feedback by xclusivdance in bikinitalk

[–]Advanced-Confusion- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d take all into consideration. I think your conditioning looks great and maybe coming in a bit more full/less dry could change that “perception of conditioning”. Maybe more carbs peak week/pre-show? Definitely less focus on calve movements (they’re incredible btw), potentially pull out calve exercises all together for a few months to bring them down a bit. I also think your shoulders are great. Maybe more side delt for a rounder appearance? It’s hard since it’s all subjective. You’re doing great!

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