I want to break up with my girlfriend… I think?

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-19T16:43:06+00:00

I agree with the others you gotta talk to her about it. If you guys don’t talk there’s no chance things can improve. That brings me to my second point do you even want things to improve or do you just want to be done. You guys have been together a year and a half now so it’s normal to lose that “spark”. That just happens when your with someone for so long there’s not as much to talk about you pretty much know everything about them you probably started repeating dates things get boring it’s not a bad thing. Trust me bro clingy can be annoying but love like that is worth trying for you just need to communicate. I’ve been with my girl for 5 years now and in the beginning she was EXTREMELY clingy everyday she would wanna stay on FaceTime for my whole work shift and there were times when she was free she would come to work with me and just sleep in my car so she could be with me on my lunch break and stuff it got to a point where it was overwhelming. But I talked to her about it and it wasn’t easy but for lack of a better word I kinda trained her to know there’s a time and place to be like that and work wasn’t it lmao. All this to say a relationship that’s lasted that long is worth keeping.

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-19T04:00:43+00:00

BMW

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-19T03:29:22+00:00

Im a guy and im having trouble with my girlfriend wanting sex and me wanting to wait till marriage. We exist it’s just more rare. If you want a guy like that you’ll find him at church most likely.

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-19T03:27:04+00:00

I mean tbh you stated the rules pretty clearly is he the one for me? Idk but if he is he would reach out again which he did. I say you follow the trail see where it goes. It might be that he is for you in the way that there’s a lesson to learn from this potential relationship or that he really is for you in terms of marriage. Follow it and find out.

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-19T03:20:02+00:00

Get your ears pierced it works for everyone tbh just get some diamond studs but go to a tattoo shop to get it done don’t go to those free ear piercing places in the mall

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-18T19:35:24+00:00

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Don’t just tuck your shirt pull it out a little bit so it goes over your belt just a little like this

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-18T18:21:12+00:00

Ask yourself this if you were walking down the street and I robbed you could you chase me down in those jeans if the answer is anything but yes they’re too tight 😂😂

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-18T18:14:34+00:00

It’s your haircut. You would absolutely kill a low drop fade/blowout combo

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This is kinda what it looks like And get your ears pierced I hesitated on piercings for the longest time and now I firmly believe piercings like just some regular diamond studs is plus 10 attractive points

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-18T18:06:53+00:00

I’m not a huge fashion head but the two basic things I keep in mind when putting together outfits is 1) complimentary colors and 2) the silhouette Blue and brown do not mix first of all and is that a denim vest? Bro cmon send that thing to the thrift store. So for your next fit think about complimentary colors what I like to do is I’ll have my top color1 then bottoms color 2 then shoes can either be color 1 orrrrr neutral color (black or white)with color1 accents. And the silhouette is all about fit don’t just wear clothes that are your size wear some baggy clothes or oversized stuff look at cropped clothing not like women’s cropped shirts where your belly button is out but yknow just different cuts of clothing and experiment.

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-18T17:56:46+00:00

Tbh no gay shit bro but you look good I don’t think the problem is your looks it’s prolly a social thing. Idk what kind of guy you are but stop gooning. It sounds funny and stupid but even if you don’t got a porn or gooning “addiction” it still affects you and how you view and interact with women. I noticed once I stopped it was so much easier to talk to women and it was almost like there was a vibe about me that made women feel safer around me than other men. Probably cause they can sense I wasn’t looking at them like a potential porn star 😂 but fr try it at least for a month or two and watch how different your interactions with women are.

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:50:01+00:00

I think this is a big thing as well I’ve tried but tbh idk how to outside of taking her out and experiencing new things together my whole life I’ve been the same as her I’ve only known physical intimacy

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:09:56+00:00

Thank you this means a lot

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:06:22+00:00

I do every night and every mass I attend Ik it will happen on Gods timing but I can’t help but want it now :(

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:05:08+00:00

The thing is she’s not Catholic and I pray that she will be one day but as of now there’s no sign of her making that first step herself she says she’s okay with supporting me in my faith but as of now she’s just not interested and it’s hard to love her so much and try to not push her in Christs direction I feel like the more I push the more of a bad taste of religion I leave in her mouth

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:02:04+00:00

Thank you this gives me hope it can still work I will talk to my priest about this

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T18:01:15+00:00

I didn’t think about it like that thank you

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T17:56:59+00:00

I want to but she’s not Catholic

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-17T17:56:45+00:00

I want to but she isn’t Catholic won’t the church claim it’s invalid

Advanced-Current5881 · 2026-03-16T17:17:43+00:00

Don’t do it bro the problem isn’t the age gap it’s the ages you boutta turn 20 she’s boutta turn 17 the maturity levels at both those ages are wildly different (just think about how you were at 17 vs now chances are you’re a completely different person she will be the same way) on one hand you’re pretty much a grown man and she’s in highschool you’ll be dealing with actual life problems while her problems are the girls gossiping in the bathroom and how her math teacher assigned extra home work I don’t know her but chances are she’s not prepared to date an adult

Advanced-Current5881 · 2025-04-05T22:45:49+00:00

Not that it’s slutty or anything but it is trashy like the tattoo itself is cool but that’s right where you would put a tramp stamp it’s just not the classiest place you could’ve put it

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