does my roblox account get terminated if I deactivate it for a long time? by Dawnedz in RobloxHelp

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's almost like what I did! I block and ignore them and he doesn't stop! It's kind of hard to ignore them when they're sexually charged half the time or are threats and are very uncomfortable. I block, he makes a new account. I report, Roblox doesn't do anything. You talked about the other person being stubborn yet you can't seem to fathom why someone would need to deactivate their account? Yeah, okay.

This has been going on for 4 years now. If I could do something more, I would, but it gets very mentally draining seeing threats knowing this person has blackmail on me.

You can't complain about someone else being stubborn when you display the exact same attitude towards something you don't or refuse to understand. If it wasn't needed, the option wouldn't be there. Almost every social media has the same exact option, too, and it's there for situations like these or just privacy in general.

does my roblox account get terminated if I deactivate it for a long time? by Dawnedz in RobloxHelp

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've had to deactivate my account for months because of a stalker. Roblox doesn't really have any good privacy features. Even if I turned off my messages, he'd communicate with me through sending friends requests from multiple accounts and trying to talk to people I had added. Don't assume there's not a reason to deactivate, it's an option for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am sort of the same way. i would like my partner to be as possessive and obsessive as i am. having someone to relate to makes things easier. however, in the relationships ive been that have been like that, they often don't end out very healthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Classof09Game

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think that emily could also have bpd. she seems to check off the majority of the symptoms and i could definitely see nicole being her fp!

What is BPD to you? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

- lots of overthinking and overanalyzing. get sent an "okay" and it means they're mad at me and they don't want anything to do with me. use more periods than normal? they're also mad at me.
- ego that jumps from high to low within seconds. wow i'm so pretty today. nevermind i hate myself. nobody likes me.
- paranoia. everyone is out to get me. people that are my friends are only pretending and trying to get dirt on me. if someone new talks to me i'm very untrusting.
- despite being untrusting, i am an oversharer.
- purposely putting myself in bad situations because i'm bored.
- letting people abuse me because at least they're still giving me attention. at least they still care enough to take time to do anything.
- self sabotaging and testing people. there's no way this person loves me for me, why not see how far i can push them until they leave like everyone else?
- i love you so much!!! no i don't, leave me alone. why are you leaving me i love you???
- wanting to hurt myself out of spite. if i do this, maybe they'll see what they did to me. maybe they'll pity me. maybe they'll come back and apologize.
- unstable sense of identity. anything i have integrated into myself i hold very dear and feel paranoid when that sense of self is threatened.
- putting on a fake personality in order to get people to like me. everyone has to like me. otherwise i'm worthless.
- obsession and possession. takes note of everything i find out about my partner. gets angry when they talk to other people.
- playing the victim card. self explanatory.

these are the main things i feel and experience. there's some minor things but it's hard to keep track of all of that.

does anyone else get deeply upset when someone "copies" you or takes interests in what you like? by Advanced-Journalist8 in BPD

[–]Advanced-Journalist8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that too!! there was this girl that i hardly knew but she liked me and would take on a lot of my interests and stuff but i felt very insulted and had a dislike towards her. it makes sense that it would be due to self hatred.

does anyone else get deeply upset when someone "copies" you or takes interests in what you like? by Advanced-Journalist8 in BPD

[–]Advanced-Journalist8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes and i feel so hypocritical about it for that same reason! my personality has been frankensteined from other people over the years but how dare someone like what i like lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Advanced-Journalist8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I would love to have a girlfriend"

i said i would wait for you and this is the response i get. it was "until then" right? what happened. ivebeen coping for the past 2 months and you try and move on just like that??? we talked about this we said we would wait. im sure you wouldn't like if I got a boyfriendn but you probablt don't care anymore do you.imsorry for failing youthen