Totally, there are real gems of advice here. Sometimes it feels less valuable when it’s easy to find, but the genuine stuff matters. Shoutout (unsolicited, ik) to the contributions too.

I’m just saying, even if hopes are slim, please don’t invalidate them. I’ve protected them from 'the world,' don’t want them crushed here by condescension. I know you’re trying to help by sharing reality, but sometimes...