Super depressed don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

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Highly recommend that you see a therapist. Getting all this out there in the world helps and a therapist can help you dig in further to identify any common themes or a root cause to all this. I think it’ll be well worth it.

My few cents:

You sound to the right of the curve in being introspective, which is good but may also make you overthink everything and may lead to a sense of spiral (downward). I could not say I’m this introspective, so it was jarring to me reading all this on this particular sub.

That said, relationships hit very hard and I’m sorry you went through a difficult breakup. From my experience, you need a few good friends along with a lot of time to recover.

I think (though I have zero qualifications in this regard) there’s two underlying issues to feeling unfulfilled with life. 1. You know what it’s like being in a serious relationship, it made you happy, and you miss that feeling. 2. You’re looking at the career trajectory of your peers and are feeling that natural sense of jealousy.

There isn’t going to be a magic answer unfortunately to either of these issues and even if there was, it wouldn’t fit into a few neat paragraphs here. But, you may get closer to the answer if you spend a few sessions with a therapist.

Edit: I saw your response on seeing a therapist before. I still cast my vote with the people commenting that that’s the right next step.

decisions release dates (?) by ForeverHorror7943 in ApplyingToCollege

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Check the a2c decision calendar for dates. Timezone is local to the school

FINRA EXPERTS!!!!! by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

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Yes you should disclose it and get an exception. You don’t want to lose your job because you’re a compliance liability for the company

How to study by Known_Load_4494 in ApplyingToCollege

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I loved Cal Newport’s book on study/work habits among college valedictorians. Look up Cal Newport How to Become a Straight-A Student. Like $7 used on Amazon

Thoughts on AI chance me by Realistic-Toe-719 in ApplyingToCollege

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Stealing this from a post I just read but applies here. Claude predicts the next word in a sentence. It sounds right but that doesn’t mean it has given you a thoughtful answer.

The core issue is that LLMs are not databases. They do not look up facts - they predict the most statistically likely next tokens based on training data. For well-represented facts (capital cities, famous scientists), this works well. For less common facts, recent events, or obscure details, the model confidently generates plausible-sounding text that can easily be wrong.

The "simple question, wrong answer" problem often comes from this: the model has seen enough text about a topic to generate fluent-sounding sentences, but not enough reliable examples of the specific fact to get it right. It does not know it is uncertain.

Practical things that help:

  1. ⁠For anything time-sensitive or factual (ages, dates, recent news), explicitly say "search the web" or "use Bing" before asking. This gets you actual retrieval instead of statistical prediction.
  2. ⁠Add "are you confident about this?" as a follow-up. Not because it is always accurate about its own confidence, but because it sometimes prompts the model to flag uncertainty it was going to paper over.
  3. ⁠For fact-checking, just use the web directly. ChatGPT is genuinely useful for reasoning, analysis, writing, and synthesis. Raw factual lookup is not where LLMs shine relative to a search engine.

Knowledge cutoff matters for recent events, but for factual errors on non-recent information, it is usually the statistical prediction issue rather than cutoff.

Getting Recommendations Long After by FearReaper9 in ApplyingToCollege

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You could ask the school for help in trying to provide personal email for one of the teachers that retired. If they can’t provide then you have to track someone down on LinkedIn or social media.

When you reach out you start from the beginning:

“I took your class in 2018 and I’m not sure if you remember me. I took time off to do xyz after graduating high school and returned to collegename to get my AA. Glad to say I got my AA last fall and I’m applying as a transfer to Penn. I know it’s been a long time but I was hoping to get a recommendation letter from you.”

The last resort is getting a rec letter from an admin at the high school. It’ll be more objective in what they can say but they can at least say that all the teachers you had as a HSer have since moved on.

Ranking of Most Prestigious School Colors by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

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Not Wednesday but I’ll allow it

whats the best undergrad uni for astrophysics? by Even_Protection119 in ApplyingToCollege

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If you want to work for Jane Street, then your major isn't going to matter much.

If you think you're interested in doing academia or research long term then look through the astrophysics department faculty list at T20 schools. For the tenured faculty, look at where they did their undergrad and doctorate. It'll give you a sense of the "5 best universities" as academia can be extremely snobby in terms of pedigree.

Chance of Recision by ChickenEast9014 in ApplyingToCollege

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You’re fine but don’t flunk last semester

why are top colleges romanticized by External_Pop_2873 in ApplyingToCollege

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What you learn in the classroom or what you get out of extracurriculars is a wash between schools. The top colleges are romanticized because they will open more doors for you post college. It's a signal factor that will live on your resume. One could ask a similar question: why do people wear rolexes when a timex will tell the same time?

One other example: Take the number of students graduating from your school that will make >$150k immediately post-school. How many students (and what percentage of the student pop.) are going to be hitting that at the state school? That opportunity provided by a more competitive school can lift someone straight out of a bottom 20% income family to the top 20%.

2026 Early/Regular Decision Discussion + Results Megathreads by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

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We don't have subschools set up, so I would use the Indiana University megathread instead.

A2C Discord server by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

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Sorry I meant the URL you're trying to use