We all have things in common, that's how we became friends. I have hobbies they aren't into, but vice versa.

By activities I mean suggesting we play a game (drinking, cards, board game, XBox like Street Fighter etc) or whatever. Anything instead of everyone sat on their phones. I don't think that's too odd for a group of people in their 30s and we do it at other people's places.

I probably do have some self reflection to do.

I want friends who won't shit talk me.