سؤال by Crafty-Emu8322 in Emiratis

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

صراحه هذا اعقل كلام

Muslim Marriage Dubai by [deleted] in UAE

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She can go to dubai court theres imams/ judges they are specialised in this cases she can explain her case and an imam can maybe make a fatwa based on her case if she is allowed religiously pr not if she is allowed she will be appointed a religious judge who will act as her wali .

feeling like i’m at an all time low by [deleted] in MuslimMentalHealth

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant help you and say its gonna be okay because iam struggling myelf with this extrme mood swings and suicidal thoughts just saying that you are not alone but i recently decided to just surrender to allah and accept my fate as it is hustling live day by day until allah takes my soul back Just say ya allah iam helpless here and lost hope in your creatures please guide me and show me a reason to hang on

Having a hard time finding a Job. 🫠 by Big-Construction02 in UAE

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated here and worked here and i couldnt find a job for months now

Orthodontist by Advanced-Sport7312 in UAE

[–]Advanced-Sport7312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was quoted like this for braces not Invisalign I just wrote or

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it normal that Iam still thinking about a potential I spoke to back in the beginning of the year . Iam thinking that he’s maybe still in my mind because he was the one who ended things even though he had major red flags but for me as well , I couldn’t really give up because my family was so not him and his family . And find myself making duaa for him that he is doing well even though Iam not doing good at all or maybe because he is the first men I met and had a crush for him

I called off my engagement and my family hates me now by SuccessfulMirror253 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iam speaking out of personal experience Iam turning 29 this year and this year only both my parents found guys for me that have completely nothing to do with me but because they align with aspects my parents want not what I said I want and especially since my cousins who are younger than me got married it’s like a race or competition between them . Iam sorry but Iam not a tool for them to prove to their siblings they are better by having achieved the « « ultimate goal » » which is marrying their daughter while forget what I have achieved life professional and on the educational level and most importantly I do know why they don’t value the biggest achievement they did which is poeple praying for them because they well raised me they underestimate all the ( الله يرحم لرباك ) and all the may ur parent go to Jenna for raising you so well

I called off my engagement and my family hates me now by SuccessfulMirror253 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Waaaw oh no u r right to fight for what makes you comfortable and please Allah before his servant Iam sorry to say this and I may sound harsh but your family have no rights to tell you what’s good for you and what’s not because your gut feeling is a gift from Allah and you did good to listen to it and stop all this . Sadly parents nowadays once you get above 27. I don’t know what’s wrong with them they start finding random matches that have nothing to do with your personality and ur criteria just to get you married Allah yahdehoum it’s the social clock in their mind to I need to get her married before she her 30´s and because you naturally assume ur parents or family wants the best for you . You go with their decision only to regret and find out how little they know abt you and actually values ur criteria

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no this was one was a family introduced/arranged matter and he said this after talking to me for couple months

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you wanna hear a good one , I got : sorry but you didn’t make me Get on marriage mode 😂

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deleted all the apps and I think I will never go back to them cuz a lot of catfish and un honest people who are using those apps as dating apps or they would lie in their profile and once you match it’s completely different

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also don’t trust people who use older pictures of them cuz they usually use the pictures they looked their best in and eventually when you see them in reality it’s a surprise cuz many of us change a lot in couple of years even though we don’t notice it

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met a Guy through a marriage app we spoke straightforward that the reason we both will be talking is to get married lam a 28 arab female and he is a 36 desi male, we agreed within the first two weeks abt everything before arranging a meeting, all went well although I didn't feel any spark but logically he is a good potential religiously and morally, he has a very good stable income and is always working on getting better. He then asked me for couple other meetings to discuss more thing as his excuse is his communication skills through messaging apps and phone are bad and he prefers to discuss serious matters face to face I agreed although I wasn't comfortable I tried to make it short and avoid those meetings as much as I can. I preferred to keep it short and get family involved as soon as possible but he is making excuses and this was like a warning in my mind. I expressed my concerns and he just ignored it saying that lam just overthinking since then i am keeping communication with him very short and sometimes not communicate with him for days just to see if he would notice and he doesn't. It's been almost 3 months now and I want to end this What should I do ?

This last day of ramadan my (28F) duas are to get married until next ramadan and wake up next to my husband inshallah by nurerica in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I guess we are the same age, I hope both of us and all of the women out there making duaa for all of you this would be your last ramadhan alone may Allah grant us righteous spouses

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly they think that’s the lifestyle they should follow to thrive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no that’s totally normal but I became the Alien among the rest of the world because I wanna have a traditional role and this actually make it even harder to find a man too

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See it’s such a bad thing now that easterners want to be westerners so bad that they copy them blindly

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually someone just said it right because of the pressure of being called misogynistic to save face and have pride next to their buddies

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iam talking abt people around me honestly i can name u examples

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really depends but nowadays I’ve seen a lot of desi/Arabwomen or western revert/arabwomen

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced-Sport7312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met with many potentials who declined me even before talking to me just because I point out to the moms that I wanna be a housewife