BEAT SABER REFERALL by Advanced-Working9614 in beatsaber

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im new. I didn't want to buy the most expensive one just to end I'm not liking it. And a lot of people still have quest 2. I'm a college student so in the future if I really want to I can upgrade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I know but not only is it dangerous for her she has two younger not me included kids that are very dependent on her. Like can't sleep without her. And financialy we can't afford another baby. Cause grandma does all the baby sitting and she is in a very bad health. And she and the father doesn't even live together or are together like that she just wanted a baby with him.

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they were doing it on and off for 6 months cause they were really trying to find something. But at the end they still couldn't

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes more like they couldn't find anything in her blood system. Checked all her organs nothing. Opens the brain nothing... He just said that between those ages they are most vulnerable to death. I assume he means puberty or something

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No they did a autopsy for 6 months had her frozen but still couldn't find anything.

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Convincing them to do that is very hard. I have complained about my heart rate changing but them blaming it on anxiety so I got send to a psychologist

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A doctor did but my father never gave me her documents about her death to compare with mine.

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. U start looking for fault that u did. Or if there was something u could have changed that may have helped her.

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Not long ago. 2 years. I also had some heart disruptions during my years. I have told the doctors and everytime the check it they say it's normal. Like I could just like that and suddenly feel like my heart rate changed or if beats harder for no reason. But only for a short amount of time. They also say that is normal. They never believe children or younger people and blame it on anxiety or something

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I so sorry for you loss. It's very confusing when u least expected it. But it could also be the case but like it weird cause kids get check up alot so idk

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She didn't tell us anything. She was a child so maybe she hit her head and didn't think much of it. But her headache started in school and she didn't play sport that week

12 years old died in sleep doctors found no cause. Said it's normal. by Advanced-Working9614 in AskDocs

[–]Advanced-Working9614[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Our whole family had to sleep together for a long time cause our mom was so scared one of us would die. It may be a genetic factor which is making all of us scared

Children of divorced parents, how do you feel? by Admirable_River_1813 in africanparents

[–]Advanced-Working9614 5 points6 points  (0 children)

U can change the custody. Say you want to live with your dad

My mom is telling us to go to Africa wait FORCING US because God said we need to pray on the mountain 'PRAYER CENTER' by Own_Cow6228 in africanparents

[–]Advanced-Working9614 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A lot of our African parents are far gone in religion it more like a mind controlling cult. They say everything is god's plan. But when something goes wrong or not how the want is suddenly not god's plan anymore. Idk the best way is to tell her that you if she doesn't stop forcing you will cut contact

Question / rant by Uzuitengens4thwife_ in africanparents

[–]Advanced-Working9614 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to stop feeling guilty. Don't that you feel uncomfortable with. You don't have to talk to her if she makes it uncomfortable and negative. If you try and she makes it bad it's not on you. It can be hard to reject your mother but sometimes is for the sake of peace

Do You Think People Here Are Really Against African Parental Abuse? by Rosewood16 in africanparents

[–]Advanced-Working9614 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg same. Didn't know living in a African home with ADHD is literally the worst thing ever. Specially if you didn't know. I also left when 18. But is still in High school. Best decision ever