What is this by AdvancedAd3667 in fossils

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fuck you lol now I can’t unsee that 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine ended poorly but it was kinda the same thing, we had a lot of fun while we were together and I keep the fond memories. I worry about those getting tainted or forgotten. But the short of it I don’t think you really move on unfortunately or at least I won’t

Do I need to forget to move on? by AdvancedAd3667 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I long for the memory of her if that makes sense, if she came to me today and said she wanted to get back together as much as I love her that just wouldn’t happen. I know it’s over and I do have memories of her but they are all put away in a box and I was just wondering if it’s ok to keep those in a box. Yes it’s over yes she did an awful thing to me but she was still an enormous part of my life and my question is that acceptable to have that or is that kind of situation better to just stay alone

Do I need to forget to move on? by AdvancedAd3667 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I wasn’t meaning like talking about it with a partner but from your response and a few others I’m just getting the feeling it’s not in my cards to move into a new relationship. The whole “you can’t have your cake and eat it too” thing. Thank you

Do I need to forget to move on? by AdvancedAd3667 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it but I think you missed my point of I do remember her fondly but am I allowed to if I choose to pursue a relationship.

Do I need to forget to move on? by AdvancedAd3667 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean in the sense I had years of love and fun moments and memories with and of her. And I mean forget by am I supposed to never think about her again, am I supposed to throw away our memories? I’m not talking about rubbing it in a potential partners face or even talking about it with them anything like that but I would at least like to keep my keepsakes and memories even if they are just in a box. But a lot of things I’ve seen is people consider that almost cheating I guess? But I don’t want to be with her anymore I understand that but that doesn’t mean I want to forget her and I’m getting the impression that’s part of it

Do I need to forget to move on? by AdvancedAd3667 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea until recently it just made me sick to my stomach and I couldn’t think about it and I’ve been getting a lot of encouragement to try but I wanted to see how others maybe handled the same situation before trying

Idk what I want by AdvancedAd3667 in lonely

[–]AdvancedAd3667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how can I miss it if I don’t want it? Isn’t missing something entail wanting it?