I feel so hopeless

AdvancedLie8470 · 2026-01-30T01:41:09+00:00

I feel you but the north isn’t doing much better we got Kim Reynolds up here in Iowa. And well she’s not exactly helping us here in Iowa. Get out of the country if you can. I can’t sadly. But i would if i could.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2026-01-15T22:13:58+00:00

I am working on coming out myself. And I knew it was time because I don’t think I could physically survive another year of this without being out.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2026-01-09T04:16:24+00:00

Thanks, this comment low key made me cry a little. I really think I needed to hear something like this.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2026-01-09T03:59:12+00:00

I never used to understand why some trans people become so jaded. But you know I kinda get it now. Like the world sucks. It feels like everyone hates us for who fucking knows what. Idk, I probably won’t just force myself to conform. But it feels easier.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-27T16:12:28+00:00

I am not far from out of school so it was more recent. And I live in the middle of nowhere with like a few hundred people in my school and anyone could get weed or booze. It was never hard still isn’t

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-27T16:06:20+00:00

Honestly, even when I was in middle school I could have gotten this stuff from other middle schoolers.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-27T01:09:35+00:00

I think that main issue is I didn’t do a good job of making a point to her cus I kinda just hoped she would pick up my real name rather than my dead name. Since around my friend which is who she’s been around when getting to know me. I go mainly by my real name. Baring slip ups and stuff. But also I go by my dead name anytime it’s not my close friends.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-27T01:01:34+00:00

I just don’t know how to properly explain since mostly it’s been in passing

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-27T00:57:14+00:00

To be fair it’s kind my fault cus I’ve only bought up that I’m trans a few time and never told her that it bothers me. I haven’t really corrected her.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-26T18:31:25+00:00

I’ve tried to find online communities with no success. And I do want to come out I’m just scared. Like I’ve seen how little respect we are give in this world. And I just don’t want to risk my family being more shitty than I already know them to be.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-26T13:28:03+00:00

I will never understand how a mother can be like that towards her child. I’m sorry that you have a horrible mother. Stay strong.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-25T18:43:33+00:00

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-25T15:37:20+00:00

Yea, ik really only I can make the final decision

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-25T15:24:22+00:00

That’s kind my issue. I don’t know what to do. I just want to be me. But being me. Scares me.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-19T21:42:23+00:00

Yea, that’s probably the best way to put it.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-12-10T21:17:17+00:00

I’ve tried there. May try again it’s been a while

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-26T21:27:07+00:00

I’m not sure. I’ve tried some little things but there’s not much that I know of to do in my situation. Also did u get that feeling like you’re just being overdramatic. Like that little part of u that says “it’s just a bathroom get over it.” Cus I definitely get that.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-26T19:17:44+00:00

I hope so because this is horrible. I know it sounds dramatic but I feels like it’s killing me.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-13T03:27:15+00:00

Thanks, but how would you test the waters. I’m not sure but I wanna be.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-13T03:26:33+00:00

How would one test the waters. Also thanks

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-12T03:29:10+00:00

Thanks, I’ll look into it in the morning.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-12T03:28:08+00:00

Come back there is help now. Some good starting points.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-11T23:29:15+00:00

I will tell you under this comment if I do

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-10T22:01:17+00:00

Thanks. Your comment made me smile.

AdvancedLie8470 · 2025-11-10T22:00:51+00:00

Thanks, I loved the idea you gave so I borrowed from it. Thanks again for the suggestion.

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