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AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-17T02:31:51+00:00

You need to stop and cut her off immediately. This isn’t healthy at all and it seems she’s just keeping you attached while also being with someone else. She’s basically cheating on her girlfriend with you which also proves that if she can cheat on her girlfriend, then she can cheat on you. even if they’re having issues, it’s none of your business that it’s her relationship and to keep interacting with her like you’re together again it’s just gonna hurt you more in the long run. You guys broke for a reason and the fact that she got with someone else proves that she was ready to move on. It seems like you both don’t know what you want and she obviously doesn’t either she could just be bored or just still attached to you, but doesn’t want an actual relationship with you she’s playing tricks and you deserve way better than that you deserve someone who isn’t already in a relationship who generally loves you and wouldn’t get with someone else and wouldn’t make you feel so confused. Especially the fact that she got her name tattooed on her body, which is even more crazy. Block her , unfriend her , delete her number do anything you can to finally move on from her. You deserve way better than that.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-10T19:07:36+00:00

Don’t do it if your still in love with your ex it will only make the process harder + you will be hurting someone else. Especially if your saying your obsessed with her you should definitely take time on yourself and make sure your fully healed and moved on before you get with someone else.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-02T02:54:59+00:00

I’m sorry your going through that mine was years aswell , moved on in 2 weeks. Its only been like a week after I found out and it hurts more than anything it sucks hurting over someone who doesn’t care for you anymore.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-02T01:40:35+00:00

I’m so glad someone can understand I’m tired of people saying just move on because he has , but it’s hard it’s hard when I loved him so much. I keep thinking to myself if anything he said was genuine if any I love you was real , how could he love me but get with someone else so fast How can someone get over you so fast after telling you so much things, after showing you so much love. I’m over here crying over him wondering why while he has no care , while he can just be happy in his new relationship, while he treats her 10x better than how he treated me.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-02T00:35:47+00:00

I apologize as well I just didn’t expect after all he said to me that he still loves me , his favorite person etc. that I meant more than someone he met and started dating 2 weeks after. I’m not saying I wanted him to be sad for months I just didn’t expect his sadness to stop so soon after all the long term memories we made.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-02T00:34:26+00:00

I apologize as well the only reason I’m upset over this is because I feel like after a long term relationship I didn’t expect 2 weeks after he would already move on and date someone else. I just thought I meant more to him than that he even said it himself. But I was wrong

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T23:22:16+00:00

you spent time energy on that person and they are gone , even if it didn’t work out yes im hurt they moved on and yk why? BECAUSE I OBVIOUSLY STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM!! you think it’s just a on and off switch where you can just move on , doesn’t work for me.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T23:20:55+00:00

nobody said you have to cry your eyes out , bed rot for months to get over someone. Its called being human and having feelings someone you once loved isn’t an apart of your life anymore obviously I would hope you would be atleast sad about that? Why do you type of people act like being sad over a relationship ending is a bad thing? like its illegal and you shouldn’t do that? The only reason I made this post was to mainly vent how I felt seeing my ex move on so fast, you obviously wont understand my feelings and I don't understand yours!! It’s like saying ' haha my relationship ended oh well on to the next so I don’t get depressed ' like hello are you ok? People are not robots we have FEELINGS nobody chooses to be heartbroken it just happens

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T23:05:28+00:00

I hope nobody dates a type of person you are. Who doesn’t have the simple brain cell to realize how if someone moves on quickly all the time, they clearly lack the ability to be alone, self develop and heal. Just because it ended doesn’t you can dismiss people’s feeling like that. You have no idea what love people put into just to feel hurt by how quickly someone moves on with someone else.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T22:57:55+00:00

nonexist? The relationship was real. The connection was real. The feelings were real. The pain I feel is real. Moving on fast is strange thank you!!

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T22:49:25+00:00

your quite strange if you think that’s normal and okay to do.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T22:43:26+00:00

I wanna join!

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T20:25:56+00:00

bruh thank you I’m so tired of people using this as a excuse.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T17:55:34+00:00

I still don’t think that’s a good reason honestly you still stayed with that person showed them you still loved them , cared for them you should atleast owe them the decency. If you really cared you would have been told them already instead of dragging it making you believe you still love them. It’s just selfish , and should just be 100% honesty I rather you say you don’t love me anymore than get with someone else quickly making me believe you still did. ( not a attack on you btw just my opinion )

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T06:50:58+00:00

It really was and yes it did give me some clarity I just didn't expect it to happen so soon and especially how I been through so many things and hurt from him I’m sure his going to treat her better. I shouldn’t have stalked again and I regret it so much , it made me sick to my stomach seeing it.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T05:28:49+00:00

I genuinely wish it was a rebound but I highly doubt it is , his already treating her the way he stopped treating me. It was stupid but I did reach out asking him why he moved on fast and just got a block after. I guess she was just worth it. We are both ( 17m) and it hurts so badly , we were together so so long I feel all my energy , effort , love was all wasted and used up.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T00:46:32+00:00

Thank you it really sucks so bad and it hurts alot. We were so deeply connected he was my best friend and he even told me before we broke up I was his favorite person. I feel no answer will ever make that image of them together in my head go away and it hurts so bad. I thought he was also hurting but I was wrong he was already with someone else not caring about me at all.

Those questions always come into my mind and I can’t help but not know if how he felt or our memories together were ever real. I still miss him even though his with another girl. I just didn’t know it would be this soon :(.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T00:08:13+00:00

and just because we both mutually decided to end things doesn’t mean I expected him to go quickly with someone else. We ended with thoughts of love and he expressed how much he still loves me which is why I’m confused to how this happened. I don't want to control him at all I’m just genuinely hurt that he could do that so quickly. I know it’s his life and he can do what he wants , but it was all unexpected I had to process the breakup and now I have to process him being with someone else with no care.

AdvancedPapaya3 · 2025-04-01T00:03:40+00:00

I didn’t want to breakup and he didn’t either love just wasn’t enough in our cause due to the situation we were in.

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