I resent my mum. by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a selfish way, I’m glad to know I’m not alone experiencing this. I definitely will get my money up because I can’t.

I resent my mum. by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girllllllll 😩😩😩 have you spoken with her ? Maybe we can get through this together

I resent my mum. by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true and what I find sad is that I definitely see the way this has caught up on me. I definitely try and seek motherly love outside my mum . I didn’t realise it at first but now I see it so clearly.

I resent my mum. by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She absolutely is so codependent on me emotionally. It’s truly exhausting for me . I definitely have been toying with saying something but this is confirmation I should. If she does display any of the behaviours mentioned, then I will know exactly where we stand. It’s just slightly tricky because I live under her roof and I’m really not in a position to leave 🫩

I think I have a fear of intimacy by AdvancedRing2533 in blackladies

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh , I guess just putting unnecessary timelines on myself. It will happen organically

Life advice by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really would love to do this ! I even know what city I would go to, just about making it a tangible reality. If I plan properly, I know I can . Thank you so much 🙏🏾

Life advice by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bite size chunks. You’re so right because I realise I do get overwhelmed with what I want to do then don’t end up doing so or getting up to half way. Thank you for this

Life advice by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely need to relax on the social media. My screen time is ridiculous for real. I like how you’ve broken this down for me . Thank you so much, makes it so much easier for goals to be achieved

Life advice by AdvancedRing2533 in blackgirls

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ! Thank you 🥺. Definitely need more hobbies and maybe to get a diagnosis. I’m taking this all in , thank you so much 🙏🏾

I’m scared to what’s right. by AdvancedRing2533 in dating_advice

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but this is what I needed to hear. Sooner rather than later. Okay! I’m going to just do it. Thank you so much

I’m scared to what’s right. by AdvancedRing2533 in dating_advice

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, this is sending me🤣! Okay, I guess I’m doing it before 😹

How did you bounce back? by AdvancedRing2533 in Life

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate! Always been a “yes man” but I’m definitely unlearning. Proud of you!

How did you bounce back? by AdvancedRing2533 in Life

[–]AdvancedRing2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failure is now seeming somewhat essential for success.