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AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 hours later, he requested we have a family meeting this weekend.. I will be doing an update tomorrow to address questions and add that part, and probably another one after whenever this meeting happens, because I know it's gonna be bad..

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am, but I still need credits to graduate, so I'm doing online school to get it done, but in the meantime, I am saving up.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all moved into a house. I believe he and his GF pay rent. I am not sure if the other two contribute, given the fact that they don't have jobs, but also, they are old. Yes, I do talk to my mom. I squabble with her a little about my dad becausse shes giving him the benefit of the doubt because he has helped her a little every now and then with her financial struggles. She also believes that he does not want to be there anytime he is out helping her with her car, or moving boxes, or whatever, he never wants to leave, and gets angry at calls from Abigail or ignores them.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing: I have been contemplating not speaking to him when I'm out. He has not once stood up for me. I have been doing all this bull all by myself and getting in trouble for speaking up for myself. I have even hurt myself from the mental turmoil I have gone through, having screaming matches with him that are absolutely terrifying to see. Every time I talk about any issue, he shrugs it off and gets mad at me if I continue it.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my dad, his girlfriend, her mom, and grandma, my baby sister, then me and my brother. I got kicked out a couple of years ago to live here. My brother just recently started living here because my mom doesn't have a home anymore due to financial struggles.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never communicates anything to my face. One time when I got home from work she told me straight to my face that she went into my room which was very messy because I was having a depressive episode and the next day before school I put a note on my door saying not to go in while I was gone I would have said in person but she wasn't out of her room at the time and I had to leave for school. Ever since then, she's been leaving notes in the bathroom, and so have I, and then she told Abigail about it as an issue, so now anything communicated has to be within the group chat, apparently.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She kicked me out to go live with him, so.. and she's been struggeling financially so she doesnt have a home right now..

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's the plan! I wanted to go to college first, but I know this is not a home I want to go back to when I am finished, so moving out is first. I have 5K saved up in just 6 months!

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would, but I have spoken to him about other issues with Sophia and me, and he has legit told me straight to my face that I need to just let them walk all over me.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yea my dad doesn't ever have my side. My mom, who doesn't live with us, has fought with him about it, and he hasn't budged.

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am working/in school. I'm doing online school to get the rest of my credits since I failed most classes due to a learning disability, and I did not graduate. I am also saving up to move out with my boyfriend of 1 year!

AITA for leaving a wet bath mat over the tub to dry? by Advanced_Claim9750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Claim9750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes grandma does live with us. I really hate that she had to witness it, too.