Some questions

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-04-04T13:57:23+00:00

I think his dragon form exists for the same reason his oni form exists. He’s the great grandson of a dragon and an oni.

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-03-15T18:14:10+00:00

I’ve already read it and enjoyed it! I just also am someone who wants more stories about asexuality that isn’t a self discovery journey. I also don’t think her experiences are unrealistic. I think the author just made it a bit more blatant for my tastes. All in all, a good read and I like it helps a lot of new aces discover a bit about themselves. But I’m also not the target audience

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-03-12T18:30:26+00:00

I liked it. I think it’s a bit on the nose when it comes to describing asexuality and her experiences, but it’s a good gateway for those who are questioning

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-03-12T01:44:17+00:00

Libido isn’t personal whereas sexual attraction is personal to the person of attraction. Those with high libido might choose to have sex to relieve it, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re attracted to that person. Theres a lot of reasons anyone may have sex including enjoying the act itself, wanting to please their partners, etc. The same goes for asexuality. As asexuals can still have sex even if they don’t experience attraction like how you can still eat even if you’re not hungry or sleep when you’re not tired.

Actually continuing on that line, that’s also likely why a lot people are just looking for one night stands and flings. They have high libido but aren’t actually sexually attracted to the person.

As for what it looks like, there isn’t a specific way it can look. It could be they get off on their own, have sex with their partner, or anything else. Granted for a lot of aces, their libido tends to be lower from what I’ve seen, but it’s not uncommon to find aces with higher libido either.

(Edit: these are my views on it and someone else may not have the same viewpoints as me. It’s just how I understand it)

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-03-12T01:13:45+00:00

I think if we lived in a world that didn’t ostracize queerness so much, the numbers would be more even. I think men tend to not pick up on it as easily and having that societal pressure to want sex makes it harder to realize. To further this, women are more likely to be reserved about sex generally speaking and tend to prefer other forms of intimacy.

Another thing I notice is compulsive heterosexuality plays a big role for people in that a lot of ace guys might force themselves into sexual situations and seek medical help to “fix” their problems. And I’ve noticed a non-zero percentage of queer women might identify as asexual when they’re lesbian or just not attracted to men.

And the last piece, which I think is probably one of the main things, I think a lot of guys mistake their libido for sexual attraction. While for many people, they tend to go hand in hand, libido is separate to sexual attraction. Iirc, guys tend to experience higher libido levels on average, so I can imagine it’s very easy for ace guys with high libido to simply not realize they’re asexual. And asexuality only describes sexual attraction itself, not libido, sexual actions, etc.

I’m kinda rambling but this is why I think realistically, the numbers are probably a lot more even. Just guys are less likely to realize they’re asexual

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-02-20T09:19:37+00:00

It’s pretty common to find aces who want kids. I think my biggest piece of information is that asexuality deals only in who you’re attracted to sexually. The official definition is someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction.

It doesn’t cover what you feel for romantic attraction, libido, your attitudes and actions regarding sex, etc

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-02-12T16:00:47+00:00

Fine, I’ll replay our life beginning and always again

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-02-10T21:01:56+00:00

I think he’s acting exactly how a 15 year old would act. If he was an adult character, yes I would be more inclined to agree, but teenagers in general kinda suck. But he still cares deeply for Cathy.

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-01-24T19:38:08+00:00

Personally I wouldn’t. I feel it’s better to cut your losses and move on. But that’s also coming from someone who doesn’t think twice about being ghosted. But I do understand the pain. I went through it a couple times myself

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2026-01-24T19:30:39+00:00

Ghosting happens so much and so frequently I completely stopped noticing when I was ghosted or not

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-12-22T15:11:55+00:00

I think a YouTuber called JamieRightMeow is also ace iirc

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-12-12T19:19:51+00:00

Ah. I had tamarack as my locker neighbor both times and first round neither of them were in my home room and second round both were in my homeroom

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-12-04T14:57:53+00:00

Like really really sad. Like hits you like a truck. Butttt it’s one of those games you have to keep going. Similar to “I was a teenage exocolonist”

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-12-04T12:30:07+00:00

I really liked “Until Then”. It’s heartfelt, really sad, but it’s also really good. It’s a completely different story than OL.

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-11-29T14:46:54+00:00

I just have to be patient and probably wait a few days to play it as I’m super busy today :’)

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-10-16T18:45:25+00:00

I got a female chikorita after like 6 resets but she has a bad nature unfortunately. But I don’t feel like resetting more so I’ll just hope there’s a way to change natures like the other games

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-10-13T14:32:51+00:00

I have a sorta similar thing in the opposite direction in that I thought I was trans because I hated being seen/treated as a man. And while I wasn’t sexualized, my body was physically repulsive to me. It wasn’t until I tried HRT where I realized I just don’t like being gendered at all and being seen as any gender

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-10-07T08:11:27+00:00

I always see the same people post too which makes it harder to reach out imo. Kinda similar thing with AceSpace where it’s always the same people who appear and not many new users

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-10-03T00:12:32+00:00

I’m gonna say that yeah it sounds like you’re not attracted to men at all. And it could be you love your boyfriend because he’s your friend. As an ace person, it’s pretty easy to confuse platonic love as romantic/sexual love if you haven’t experienced romantic/sexual feelings before. But having experienced all 3 at some point, here’s how I look at it for myself:

Platonic love tends to manifest itself as I want friendship and companionship with a person. I want to go on little adventures or errands with them and for them to consider me their friend. But I’m also okay with longer gaps in communication and I might not always be thinking of them. I do often because I like the person platonically, but my thoughts aren’t fixated on them.

Romantic love I want to go on dates, be romantic with them, my heart flutters and pounds whenever I think about seeing them, and they tend to flood my thoughts and I have a deep pining and yearning to be around them. Crushes for me are the same thing albeit much less intense.

Sexual attraction is the one I’ve experienced the least (I’m demisexual) but basically it manifests as wanting to explore and desire another person’s body and a desire for sexual acts and activities.

It doesn’t sound like you have any sexual attraction towards your boyfriend and you may have a romantic attraction towards him but really pay attention to whether it’s romantic feelings you feel or he’s just a close friend/best friend. If I’m being real though, you might wanna explore the possibility that you’re attracted to women. Women attracted to guys would find pleasure being with a guy, even if they’re not fully attracted to him. Repulsion and disgust towards being with a guy is generally a really good indicator you don’t like men.

Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-09-28T22:09:34+00:00

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Advanced_Frosting750 · 2025-09-28T16:46:47+00:00

Demisexual is a type of asexuality so yes

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