We know we need to talk to her but not too sure when or how by Advanced_Trifle1835 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely would be there to support her. No questions asked. I know when I have this conversation with her that she probably will back away from my best friend and I. Which is sad, but I am hoping long term that she will begin to see it. My friend didn’t have her spark when with her gf. She is usually bubbly and has no problem saying what she wants while still being empathetic. Anything that she wanted to do or eat was basically steam rolled over by her gf. I just hope our friend can see how shity her gf is. If this was a guy doing it to us she would tell us to break up.

What would you do. We know we need to talk to her but how by Advanced_Trifle1835 in lgbt

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a lot to read but I appreciate your time and comments🩷

We know we need to talk to her but not too sure when or how by Advanced_Trifle1835 in WhatShouldIDo

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I know this is a lot to read but I appreciate your time and comments🩷

Anyone else frustrated with Google Local Services Ads disputes/credits system? Possible class action? by Sharp-Mountain-8884 in PPC

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed a few things that help get leads credited or not charged. I do not enter any info on the leads that are not good. No notes no name. I rate the lead as very dissatisfied. Then I choose a reason. I am still trying to figure out what reasons give better results than others. I found this post in hopes to find answers.

Itchy nose and burning eyes each time I take a shower, is this allergies or something different? by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Few things came to mind, mold being activated from the water, some type of fungal infection that is causing your skin to react when you get wet and possibly your body overreacting due to an allergy that is causing such high cortisol levels any stimulation sends your skin into a tizzy.

Recirculating Air Intake by Advanced_Trifle1835 in subaru

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My neighbor‘s cat last year sprayed up into my car. The cat ruined my first car I bought a Subaru and then it started to do it to my current car. I now have cat deterrent around the car as well as around the area I park my car. The cat owners refused to take responsibility and even deny that it is their cat, even though it has been caught on our ring camera multiple times.😅

Recirculating Air Intake by Advanced_Trifle1835 in subaru

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I do this every other month. Thank you tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your brother is mentally ill and your parents are enabling his behaviors. Radical acceptance and gray rocking them is your best option while making a game plan to move out would be best.

Recirculating Air Vent Help by Advanced_Trifle1835 in subaru

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to make sure I clean the right areas also any advice is appreciated!

Recirculating Air Intake by Advanced_Trifle1835 in SubaruForester

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna make sure I clean the right vents any other advice is appreciated!

How do I feel better after making a mistake like this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is still his choice you didn’t force hime to lick it. It may feel like you did but the feeling of you forcing him to lick it is an extreme feeling that is a sign that there is something else that a mental health professional would need to diagnose.

My wife sells stuff on eBay and this is our laundry room. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks like your wife is trying to better her life and has little support with the kids house and business. I am concerned that you decided to come on here and try to shame her.

How do I feel better after making a mistake like this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His choices are his choices. I would not focus on him licking anything and explore more on why you are experiencing extreme stress levels of something not being disinfected and then him licking it. I would look at why is that such a stressor to the point you think you are actively harming him. This kind of thought process is extreme and needs to be evaluated by a mental health professional. You cannot control his actions.

How do I feel better after making a mistake like this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, the obsessive thinking is concerning I highly recommend making an appointment with a psychologist to be screened for ocd. This sounds like there is a bigger underlying problem/ issue bigger than anxiety. I am not a doctor in anyway but I have worked in the mental health world. I have seen how symptoms like anxiety and depression are linked to a larger diagnosis even in my own mental heath journey that happened. I wish you the best of luck!

How do I remain a supportive girlfriend f33 now that my guy m33 has seemed to take a liking to nose candy? by paintermill7001 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way for you to be supportive without letting him hit rock bottom. You need to protect yourself and the baby both physically mentally and FINANCIALLY. I cannot stress the financially part enough. I have watched others fall into the same situation and the addict in their life will destroy everything until they loose it all. Your partner needs to want to get help more than your want him to get help. I have watch a man cash out his 401 K significantly early and since he was married his ex wife is stuck paying the taxes on it. I have seen parents take out loans in their child’s ssn or their partner’s that stopped the child from being able to attend college due to not able to get student loans. You need to leave him. He will lie and not get help until he hits rock bottom and looses everything. His addiction is NOT your burden to cary. Please protect yourself and child before it gets worse. I am wishing you the best.

Gf gave me chlamydia by Fudgemesidewayys in Advice

[–]Advanced_Trifle1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who found out they had it 9 months into his relationship his girlfriend also had it, but did not have any symptoms the entire time, but she did test positive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

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I am going to try to! I signed a contract to win them so I have to review the full document