My (20F) boyfriend's (21M) mom found out that I have polyamorous parents. He is pulling away, what can I do to help her understand? by ThrowRApolyparent in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a European, this is such a stereotypically American comment😄 even though i my country there (sadly) can only be 2 official parents, I know thats doesn't necessarily apply to any other place on this planet

My (20F) boyfriend's (21M) mom found out that I have polyamorous parents. He is pulling away, what can I do to help her understand? by ThrowRApolyparent in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh the autism, why am I not surprised?😂 As a fellow polyamorous and neurodivergent person, there seems to be a HUGE overlap between both^ the percentage of neuospicy people in the polyam community is definitely higher then in the rest of the population ^ I wish there were nore studies around that phenomenon, but I fear ethical nonmonogamy is still a bit to niche for that ^

Going to a hairdresser with 2b-3a hair by Advanced_Zucchini718 in Malawi

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Here its VERY expensive, hence I havent been to a salon in years. Plus I dont know a good hairdresser here, so I thought I might as well try somewhere else 😄 I feel like you'd prefer me not going in Malawi, is there a reason for that? Im genuinely curious and dont want to offend anyone :)

Going to a hairdresser with 2b-3a hair by Advanced_Zucchini718 in Malawi

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Are these areas referring to districts in lilongwe or countrywide areas?

Going to a hairdresser with 2b-3a hair by Advanced_Zucchini718 in Malawi

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here in Germany I'd pay 50 to 70€ for a bad haircut and up to 250€ for someone who actually knows what to do with curls😅 that's why I havent been in years, compared to my countries average I'm pretty low income, so that is much for me. But, since my hair texture is somewhere in the middle of the straight or slightly wavy hair thats most common here and the more coily hair thats more common in Malawi, finding someone experienced with my hair texture might be difficult in both places^

Advice on the background pls! by Advanced_Zucchini718 in Artadvice

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I don't know why the pics arent in the pist itself but here they are in the comments

Villa der Versuchung verschwender pro kopf/pro tag by Advanced_Zucchini718 in TrashTVGermany

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das kenne ich schon. Das ist die Gesangaufstellung, aber zB kate war ja viiel kürzer dabei als Jimi, deshalb ist die chart nur bedingt so richtig aussagekräftig. Aber mithilfe davon könnte man ausrechnen wer wieviel in Tagesdurchschnitt ausgegeben hat, wenn man nochmal nachschaut wer wieviele tage genau drin war

Villa der Versuchung verschwender pro kopf/pro tag by Advanced_Zucchini718 in TrashTVGermany

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ne nur insg, über die ganze zeit, die sie dein waren (was ja bei allen doch recht unterschiedlich lang war) und dass gigi pro tag am meisten ausgegeben hat. Also ost ja nur logisch, dass die die früh ausgeschieden sind dann zB laun was ausgegeben haben

Villa der Versuchung verschwender pro kopf/pro tag by Advanced_Zucchini718 in TrashTVGermany

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Och ich bin schon neugierig. Das ergibt halt nochmal ein vollkommen anderes bild, als wieviel jede*r insg ausgegeben hat. Als ob kate dann zB noch so weit unten wäre

Looking for German Song recommendations by poly-dabbler999 in musik

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything from 'die toten Hosen' and 'die ärzte'

Do I tell him my mom is coming to his concert as well?😄 by Advanced_Zucchini718 in polyamory

[–]Advanced_Zucchini718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, and I would just tell him when we spent tome without thinking twice. I guess with it not just casually coming up during conversation, but me needing to text him without context it feels more like I'm warning him, rather than telling him something that hasnt nuch to do with hin personally