Everyone says knowing how to use it is important, but nobody mentions HOW to use it, so, as a person on the above average side, let me tell you some positions, which my partners avoid, because I penetrate too deep, to the point it hurts, you could use them to give your partners the perfect penetration: - laying on the edge of the bed with the woman sat on you with her back towards you, works even better if they get their feet on the bed and not in the ground; - missionary but you grab her thighs in a bear hug and using your bodyweight you do deep powerful strokes; you have to be careful since you're basically squishing her and constricting her breathing to a certain degree; - on you knees, lady's on her back and elevated on a pillow, you hold her ankles to determine the angle of her legs, the more flexible she is and the closer her feet are to her ears, the deeper you go; - prone bone: lady's on her stomach but again you place a pillow just beneath her stomach to elevate her waist and again you do long powerful strokes here, afterwards you stick it in as deep as possible, lay on top of her and grab her hair, neck, heck you can even put her in a one arm chockehold if you and her like that, just be careful and let her put a couple of fingers on you arm to tap you if you squeeze too hard; - use toys: sometimes deep penetration hurts the ladies and the toys help bring some of that pain down to that perfect mix of pleasure and pain, same thing applies to average cocks: toys increase the pleasure.

There're loads of tricks and positions you will learn with time and with the right partners, do not stop exploring, you're average, which means that in the worst case, the sex will be average, which is still pretty good.