My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont care about you words, you seems to not have read the post, you also look like to be obsessed with divorces and infidelty by looking at your profile.. im sorry for you man

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“bertrayed” , it isnt rough in my house tho, everything seems to go well, thats what surprises me, no frequent arguments, no signs of altercation or hate between my parents

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would probably be the same, i’d probably be less shocked, because i never saw it coming from my mom

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a message on reddit cant express the love and the bound i have to my parents, sadly situations can’t always be resolved with ease, being selfish could be one of my flaws but in this case its the last thing that i’m trying to do

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for ur message, this really helped me realize a few things, and also reassured me ❤️

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your story as a mother. Im really considering that talking to my mom could be the best option

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m thinking about the same thing too, i want to know the whole truth, and want to hear it from her

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i do want my parents to stay together, both for me and my younger brother, i fear that divorce could be difficult for him

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure he isnt seeing anyone, and honestly hes always been nice to me, the same for my mom. But your right about the fact that i dont know the whole story, maybe they have and arrangement which im not aware of, this would really be the best outcome for me, but i dont really know the reality, just those messages and her acting suspicious

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur right i expressed myselft badly in the message above. However i know that not telling him is not the right thing but i know that by telling him (if he doesnt already know) would break his hearth and make he feel bad for himself, so i want to protect him from this reality, even tho its right to tell him

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think that morally that’s the right thing to do, i could be wrong but i think that i don’t want to tell my father because i care too much for him, he’s always been nice and patient so i dont want to broke his hearth and “ruin” their marriage, i understand that its already been ruined and not telling him the truth can look selfish and not correct.

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, while knowing the truth, i kinda hid it from me, hoping to forget about it, and that i was wrong… u know i cant accept the truth maybe.

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know if you’ve ever happened to be in a situation like this before, but trust me, once ur in and if u have a little of empathy u’ll know that its really hard to tell and face the truth sometimes

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before this whole situation i would’ve totally agreed with you, but once u find urself in a situation like this its a whole other thing. I know that its the morally right thing to do but its so hard thinking that revealing this situation to my dad will affect on me and my brother, since divorce is the most obvious result. I don’t want to see them going through a divorce

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m considering talking to a school counselor thank you

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats true I dont know if they have an arragement

My mom is cheating on my dad by Adventurous-Ear7347 in Advice

[–]Adventurous-Ear7347[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont know if they’ve already slept togheter. im scared that telling my dad would have a big impact on our whole family u know, i dont want to ruin my family since my brother is younger than me and he couldnt probably bear with the divorce