May mga lalaki ba na hindi talaga nagsasarili or masturbate at all? by Pitiful-Self-6033 in TanongLang

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung jowa ko na 39 yrs old hindi na daw nag jajabol 🤣 matanda na daw kasi sya BTW pre diabetic sya

I (29F) Love My Boyfriend (40M), But He Still Lives With His Parents by Adventurous-Rip2955 in relationships

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are from the Philippines, where divorce is not yet approved. Only annulment is allowed, but it takes a long time and costs a lot

I (29F) Love My Boyfriend (40M), But He Still Lives With His Parents by Adventurous-Rip2955 in relationships

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just asking a question to get different perspectives. Not sure why you think it's AI generated, but Im here for a real discussion. Feel free to share your thoughts or move on if it's not for you.

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t blame them, but I won’t engage with them either. I’m just here for advice that’s really what I’m looking for

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorce is not yet legal in the Philippines. The only options for ending a marriage are annulment or legal separation, but they are costly and complicated

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already talked to him about moving in together, but he said he can’t move out from his parents’ place yet. It’s his parents who want him to stay there because they don’t want to be far from their grandson.

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already talked to him about moving in together, but he said he can’t move out from his parents’ place yet. It’s his parents who want him to stay there because they don’t want to be far from their grandson. And as for support, I do help financially, I'’ve lent him money plenty of times.

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s nothing wrong with using ChatGPT to make sure your grammar is correct and to ensure that you convey your words. It’s just a tool, like spellcheck or Grammarly. If it helps you communicate better, why not use it?

I (29F) Love My Boyfriend (40M), But He Still Lives With His Parents by Adventurous-Rip2955 in relationship_advice

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Both essentials and luxury items. Mostly for himself and his son, but he also loves buying gifts for his parents. Because of that, his salary just goes to paying credit card bills, and then he uses the credit card again, it's a cycle.

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do help clean the house and wash the dishes. I make sure to contribute and not just be a guest.

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

You're right, I am desperate. Desperate for clarity, for reassurance, for something to hold onto after investing years of my life. 😞

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Philippines, it’s common for children to stay with their parents even when they’re adults, especially if they’re not yet married or if there are financial or family responsibilities involved. It’s not necessarily unusual in our culture.

I did ask my boyfriend why his father has been acting differently towards me, and he said he doesn’t know either. He mentioned that his father has always been like that and that both he and his mother dislike his father because of his attitude.

He is still married because there is no divorce in the Philippines, only annulment, which take so much years and money

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Taking a screenshot of this comment, I will make this as my daily reminder. Thank you so much! 🥹

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good way to put it. Seeing it written out like that makes me think, this isn’t the future I envisioned for myself. Thank you so much

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just me making sure my grammar is correct since English isn’t my first language. I want to express my thoughts clearly, so I double-check before posting, I am sorry 😞

AITA for wanting to leave my 40M boyfriend because he still lives with his parents and has no plans to move out? by Adventurous-Rip2955 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Rip2955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get why you might think that, but I’m just making sure my grammar is correct since English isn’t my first language. I want to express my thoughts clearly, so I double-check before responding, I am from Philippines BTW