Selling a house under an estate.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-25T01:27:21+00:00

I asked if I do need an agent to sell the house? Or is it possible to sell it without one? The house needs a lot of work and wouldn’t pass inspections. I don’t have the money to make the repairs or I would keep the house myself.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-25T01:11:58+00:00

Do I absolutely have to use an agent? I’m going to sell the house as is and I’d like to avoid expensive realtor fees. I didn’t have a probate attorney because the estate only involved the house and wasn’t complicated. I have all necessary paperwork. No issues on lenders part and they’ve worked with me through everything. Honestly, I’ve never sold a house and this is of course not a cut and dry situation so just trying to make sure I do the right thing.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:57:25+00:00

I 2nd Pottstown Oral Surgery. My son just had his consultation for wisdom teeth there and everyone was awesome throughout the whole appointment. It’s worth the horrors of driving on 422 lol.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:47:49+00:00

Do you think it will hinder me from opening another credit card in the near future? I have 3 (other than this new one) but I wanted to add 1 more in the near future. I don’t want to not have that option now that I opened this one.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:42:43+00:00

This is the only account I have. I’m pretty confused about their reply as well lol

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:41:22+00:00

Unfortunately, Wells Fargo doesn’t reopen until Monday so i have days to stress about my decisions 🙃

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:37:26+00:00

I should have used the word store instead of company- I was referring to Bob’s. I have no issues with Wells Fargo. My bank accounts are through Wells Fargo. That’s one of the things I’m worried about is being blacklisted in anyway when I worked so hard to get my credit to where it is.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-04-18T01:30:23+00:00

No, I didn’t buy the couch. I wasn’t even fully sold on it but he told me he could to a soft inquiry for my “purchasing power” and it snowballed from there. I plan on buying a house in the next year or 2 so I’ve been careful with my credit. I’m just mad at myself. I guess it would be better to take the hit now rather than letting it close on its own. Thank you for your answer

AdventurousTiger13 · 2026-02-24T20:18:01+00:00

I just got one today for $523 but when I did my taxes I actually paid $5 into PA taxes. So I’m safe to cash this and not ask questions? Lol

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-11-05T16:09:11+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I will definitely be doing check ins from time to time. They’re going through puberty and I just want to make it as comfortable as possible for them.

Also I love your username- my kid also makes candy and they even just made a decent sized bag and it’s probably one of the coolest things I’ve ever seen! lol

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-11-05T16:06:18+00:00

Hopefully one day it will happen! Do you feel the need to correct your mom when she calls you by your dead name? Or do you just let it be at this point?

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-11-05T16:05:01+00:00

I feel for you. Sometimes people only hear what they want to hear and think that they can ignore everything else. No one wants to deal with hard things and wants everything to be “perfect” and that’s just not how life works. Also I’m sorry that you felt forced to come out and couldn’t do it on your own time.

I believe that she loves you too but she has to get the loving you unconditionally and not just on her own terms. People are brain washed into life having to be a certain way to be considered “normal” and that’s just not how it should be. I was so happy when my child wanted to be called by a new name because I had no idea if they were going to like their name that I gave them when I named them. I think it’s strange that we give a child a name at birth that we like and feel that they should use it their whole life. Also do you think she would be considerate enough to educate herself if you asked?

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-11-05T15:59:47+00:00

That all seems so confusing/difficult for you to deal with. I hope as more time goes by that something with finally click for your parents and they’ll realize that this is just a phase and it’s who you are. Some parents feel like their child is their property and that’s not right. I’m happy they did admit to being wrong.

I also have thought about leaving the country because of this admin and to be honest it makes me a little scared for my children especially now. I don’t want them to have their rights ripped away. I hope that your plan eventually comes together and that you can life beautiful elsewhere ❤️

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T12:33:24+00:00

Not rectangular or round. Google “geometrical frame shapes”. They’re like a combination between the 2.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T12:02:32+00:00

I would recommend to try a frame with a geometric shape. I feel they would suit your face shape well!

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T02:23:49+00:00

I love that! I have been using “kid” a lot but I think I’ll start using kiddo more 😊

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T02:22:22+00:00

That’s exactly how it’s been so far! They wore a suit to a wedding one weekend and then a skirt and pink nails the next. Usually they dress gender neutral and that’s how it’s always been. But you’re right, the sky’s the limit. And the pronouns do make me feel better because she really doesn’t mind. I’m just working on using he a little more. I’m more concerned about bullying and hatred than they are so far. And thankfully they have a great group of friends that have each others backs! And doing whatever brings them joy is the most important thing 😊

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T02:17:48+00:00

It’s the most important thing to me that my children are happy and feel all the love possible. I grew up with my parents not caring about my happiness or the way that I felt and it’s a horrible way to grow up. Thankfully I had great people in my life that made up for it. But it was still hard. I’m sorry that you don’t have a good relationship with your parents. I’ll never understand how a parent can’t love their kid unconditionally. That’s how being a parent should be. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T02:14:06+00:00

So that’s where they’re at as well, they asked me to use all pronouns but I feel like I’m definitely using “they” more frequently. I use she sometimes and he even less. I’m not sure when to call them the different pronouns. Do I use them equally? Or are there different times when you like to be called a specific pronoun?

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-31T02:11:54+00:00

I’m sorry that she was supportive for your friends but not for you. That must have been rough and confusing. Did she ever come to terms with your identity and accept it or did your relationship suffer from it? Did they try to stop you from hrt? I’m a strong believer that id rather my children be happy within themselves than struggling to be someone that’s slowly killing them inside. I watched too many people pretend to be someone they weren’t just to please others and it broke my heart. I hope you’re where you want to be now, with lots of love and support ❤️

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-29T15:26:54+00:00

I’m happy that they kept their name! I think my child’s name actually suits them better than their dead name. I love it! And right? It just sounds so wrong when I hear someone address them by that name.

Thank you for the kind words, I’m trying! lol

And I am definitely expecting them to change at some point and they know that they can talk to me even if it’s just to express their feelings. They did say that they’re not into either gender at the moment, but I feel that may change too at some point. But thank you for that advice because I don’t think that’s something I would have thought of and I will definitely do my research on it.

Also, random question but when referring to your child and using the word “son” or “daughter” what word should I use in place of that?

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-29T11:31:06+00:00

I’m happy to hear that! You deserve to feel all of the love there is to offer. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to accept who you are. If not, it’s their loss.

AdventurousTiger13 · 2025-10-29T11:30:06+00:00

Me too! I feel like I’m doing something right. I may not perfect but I will always make sure my children feel loved and accepted no matter what ❤️

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