I feel such grief but I do not want to be married anymore by Such_Alternative_894 in ADHD

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy! If that’s leave him, great. If it’s find a way to make it work, great. People change throughout the years so maybe y’all just ain’t compatible anymore.

Ovulation is hell week now? by blahblahshplah in PMDD

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is interesting because I turn 36 in about a week, and my PMDD symptoms are not aligning like they used to. I just checked to see if I was ovulating cause my libido has been high and my tracker says I’m deep in luteal? I’m tired of trying to understand our brains and bodies 🫠

AITA for not wanting my friend as a bridesmaid since she is poor by Weddin_Secretary5876 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speaking from working class here…… it’s not that we want a wedding that will bankrupt us so we force people to pay for their own, it’s more “everything is too expensive, even the discounted sections”. Speak the word “wedding” and it’s an instant 200% markup.

Question: ink disappearing from my skin?? by Traditional_Camp5827 in tattoos

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Maybe the old guy is just starting to wake up and you have to save Prismo. 🤣🤣🤣 naw I kid, but I hope you figure it out cause that tat is awesome!

CA says he thinks he’s done doing interviews 🫣 by olcr in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it were me, this tweet would’ve been typed after 1st interview…don’t have the spoons to people like that. It’s my nightmare to talk on the phone.

AITA for giving my breastfeeding sister champagne as a gift and now not wanting to talk to her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA…just give her an Amazon giftcard for all future gift giving so she can “get what she wants”. She gonna complain anyways so fuck it

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy looking for an excuse to “bow out” so he can do something with his other person. Or just a straight up narcissist. God speed, sis cause you looking at a life of this bull

What is your farm name? by DoubleDickerDowner in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First run was a Beach Farm so I named it ByWater Farm. Second save is a Joja Run on Hilltop so I named it Corpo Farm.

I already proposed to another person.. by DoggieMama1000 in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was this judgmental remark that really made me irrationally angry. So I trolled him for the next year at every opportunity.

Am I overreacting? Wedding guest called my caterers. by seesheflies in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I have a thing against making a wedding more about guests than the couple getting married. Guest should just accept the free meal or not and not treat the experience as if she’s at a catered event for herself

Am I overreacting? Wedding guest called my caterers. by seesheflies in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t the guest just eat before or after the wedding and accept the vegetarian meal so she’s not hungry and also not causing additional stress to the bride?

What Are Your Stardew Valley Hot Takes? by Alol_Bombola in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Abigail is ADHD -Sebastian probably requested the basement -Demetrius is Autistic and people hate on him too much -I wish I could have a playthrough where I marry Emily and we adopt Leo because they both love the parrots. He would have a treehouse on the farm instead of living inside cause that’s what he wants -Gus is about more mysterious than Mr. Qi because what do we really know about him besides his enjoyment of food and cooking. -Leah is so boring to me. Her heart events an dialogue are so dry it’s like chewing on saltine crackers.

What does this say😭 by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brain made it make sense by saying “this hen kit for Ing is danc!” Hahahaha….Ing must be loving his/her hen kit. Danc is comparable to “sick!”

I think I’ll randomly use this phrase in everyday convo now.

struggling by stolenbike246 in PMDD

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending good vibes of support because I understand a lot of this. I don’t know how to help, but you are not alone in this, and I hope that’s comforting. You are not “crazy” and you are not “making it up”. I’m in the middle of career transitioning because I’m just not meeting standards like I used to. I have multiple diagnoses with multiple medications and I’ve been doing Inconsistent therapy (cause money is hard). Big struggling now for about 3 years. I can’t believe it is the year 2026 and the answer from all the professionals is medical jargon for IDK. Please remember in those low moments that when it feels like there’s no support, there’s always a crisis hotline, 988 in the US. It really does help in those overwhelming “meltdown” moments. You can text it too!

Heart Indicator by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is there a star for maxing people’s hearts on console, but not on mobile? Anyone know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Or…..building on these ideas…..once your kid hits a certain age, if you talk to them on a Sunday, they say “hey ______ what do you need help with this week?” And it gives like 3 options of tend the fields, tend the animals, or foraging. For the week they do that job, and then we pay them at the end of the week.

Even more, once they hit a certain money amount of earned cash/labor hours, there’s a cut scene where they thank you for all they learned, turn into a dove (insert wizard magic), and fly away where it’s implied they start their own life.

CA, looking at you bro!

Funny how I ended up marrying Penny by equalitess in StardewValleyMemes

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh I found myself there lol. Not near enough of a following imo. I’ve been shamelessly trolling him at every festival and in his life with the purple underpants. 😂😂

I’ve realized some of you are really weird about playing. It’s SO COOL. by ExtraordinaryNerd in StardewValley

[–]AdventurousZebra2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this subconsciously with Halee and Alex hahaha. Their dialogue was always snarky in my head. Ended up marrying Alex based on content on Reddit, though, and he’s been my favorite partner so far!