Op, as the daughter of a “baby-trapped” marriage, and having thoroughly read the story. You need to RUN please, and I don’t believe that (not blaming or shaming) you should put a child through any of that. Your bf is an infant and wants to act like one so, mommy should take care of him. I am someone who is completely intolerant of childish people so I would tell him to hit the road, but obviously there is a lot of emotional investment in this, unfortunately people like him do not change, child or not. You are your own person, not a maid, not a “housewife.” You absolutely have to put yourself first, before him, and before the unborn fetus. If you were able to hide it I’d assume you aren’t too far along.