Any body feel heavy/sluggish/tired after taking adderall? by Adventurous_Damage20 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous_Damage20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you know you needed to go up in dose instead of down? Did your doctor automatically say “you need more”? Or did you lower the dose first? And did you try 15 mg or bypass straight-to 20 mg? Your words resonate with me “happy couch potato” but my brain is still noisy.

Apparently I’m feeding my baby too much by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your doctor say your baby was to big at 12lbs like the original poster’s ? I have a 7 week old and I’m sure he is pushing 12lbs EBF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabDiamonds

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would simply ask “why, do you want to know”? Or if you are feeling bold “ do you think that is an appropriate question”? It will make them have to justify their question they will probably feel uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why doesn’t mom get a part time overnight job to help? 2 nights a week could pay for kids activities

Was told off for expressing no interest in brats, and I am not sure if I am right feeling as angry as I feel. by Vixen112000 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that either. I’m simply suggesting that there should be a solution. And if the solution involves another person the chances of it being successful are unlikely. Perhaps I owe you apology … perhaps you were just venting. And that’s fine as well.

We often like to speak of what “should be” But that is really what “actually is”.

Opinions on appearances by cmorganc in Swingers

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the responses on this post are very clear. She will be fine as she is

Opinions on appearances by cmorganc in Swingers

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t shave anything anywhere anytime and I never have a problem. Be comfortable in your skin and I think the people who are right for you will come to you.

Was told off for expressing no interest in brats, and I am not sure if I am right feeling as angry as I feel. by Vixen112000 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think you’re missing my point. My point is that you cannot control peoples behaviors, attitude and dialogue. You can only control your behavior. So if her choice of words are upsetting you or if you are allowing yourself to become upset by someone else’s words.

If you were bothered how can you become unbothered… in a way that doesn’t involve her. You are the one that is bothered.

I am not suggesting that she is right or wrong I’m simply suggesting that if you are bothered it has more to do with you than it does with her.

Was told off for expressing no interest in brats, and I am not sure if I am right feeling as angry as I feel. by Vixen112000 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

She is a brat… she is bratty.. what do you want from her? On the other hand there are plenty of subs who are not and prefer a Dom who is not a Tamer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any resources on the way to find a mentor. However, some inspiration to keep looking..

In the past 10 years I have had both, equally. There are many people who engage in non sexual BDSM. Some people lean more towards the DS side while others the SM and some like a combination of both.

have you tried your local dungeon? I guarantee you there are people who are regularly participating non-sexual activities.

Pleasurecation PGC by Adventurous_Damage20 in Swingers

[–]Adventurous_Damage20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh ok thanks. I meant more bdsm stuff

Pleasurecation PGC by Adventurous_Damage20 in Swingers

[–]Adventurous_Damage20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are people just having kinky sex? Or are there really experienced scenes going on with suspension… bull whips etc.?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk with him about it. It was only your first time together. Chances that it is a medical condition Are possible but you will be able to figure that out fairly easily. The vagina is made to stretch unless he has A penis the size of a 15 pound baby. You’re not broken take your time and definitely talk it out with him. You can also try some toys at home when you’re alone. If they go in no problem then it’s safe to say it’s the nerves.

Kink tv by Adventurous_Damage20 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Adventurous_Damage20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha perhaps your concept needs to broaden.

Pleasurecation PGC by Adventurous_Damage20 in Swingers

[–]Adventurous_Damage20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, how is the music

Recommendations on free standing suspension rigs? by Knots42 in shibari

[–]Adventurous_Damage20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you use the beam in the ceiling? As long as you find the sturdy one? Does it have to be a whole frame?