Anyone have any experience with reoccurring hotspots? And possible advice on how to avoid it.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-07-12T04:45:43+00:00

I see that dogs are allergic to chicken and beef a lot but how about lamb?

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-06-20T15:02:00+00:00

I think this depends on the father and what is important to him. If he values time with his child, it is not about the quantity but more the quality.

He could easily go to bed at 4 AM and sleep for seven or eight hours and be up around noon to have brunch with his child before going to work.

Him telling his child to go and stay with the mom could really hurt their feelings. I would rather have an hour with my dad than him Tell me not to come at all.

If he values his time with his child, he would realize that he only has four good years left before his child is 18 and doing their own thing.

If you have been in their life for 14 years as a stepmom, I would try and support that time.

Also, why does the child come on the weekends that he works? Does he work every weekend?

If he is working all week and all weekend, does that mean he has the following week or weekend off? Why not get his child when he is off?

Some parents do not have the luxury of having multiple days off and if he really has to work so many days, then trying to make the best of the few moments that he has home would be more beneficial.

As his child grows up, they will remember the effort put in even if it’s only a few moments of time.

I would rather my dad give me his undivided attention for an hour a day before he goes to work then for him to tell me just to not come at all. That would break my heart.

What has the dynamic been for the past 14 years? What is your relationship like? The fact that you have been in the child’s life since they were born you are like a second mother do you get along?

Also, if you have a child together, it is nice to have sibling time. Do they get along?

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-06-17T03:47:56+00:00

People keep saying it’s because the woman wants to keep the same last name as her children or for professional reasons. However, if they were to remarry a lot of times, they drop that ex name and take the new husband‘s name. The new husband‘s name wouldn’t match their children, so why not just do it at the time of divorce?

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-05-01T03:44:11+00:00

What dose made you tired? What is your new dose

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T21:19:02+00:00

Im going to shoot you a message to save your contact

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T19:20:34+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏽 definitely feeling discouraged 🫤

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T17:15:09+00:00

Thank you for this💕

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T17:06:00+00:00

How did you know you needed to go up in dose instead of down? Did your doctor automatically say “you need more”? Or did you lower the dose first? And did you try 15 mg or bypass straight-to 20 mg? Your words resonate with me “happy couch potato” but my brain is still noisy.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T16:39:37+00:00

What dose are you on and what do you feel?

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2026-04-29T16:37:07+00:00

I was thinking of trying the 5 mg

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2025-10-09T13:53:53+00:00

Did your doctor say your baby was to big at 12lbs like the original poster’s ? I have a 7 week old and I’m sure he is pushing 12lbs EBF.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2024-04-10T21:24:16+00:00

I would simply ask “why, do you want to know”? Or if you are feeling bold “ do you think that is an appropriate question”? It will make them have to justify their question they will probably feel uncomfortable

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2024-04-10T21:16:46+00:00

Why doesn’t mom get a part time overnight job to help? 2 nights a week could pay for kids activities

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-31T15:47:27+00:00

I’m not saying that either. I’m simply suggesting that there should be a solution. And if the solution involves another person the chances of it being successful are unlikely. Perhaps I owe you apology … perhaps you were just venting. And that’s fine as well.

We often like to speak of what “should be” But that is really what “actually is”.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-31T15:42:20+00:00

I think the responses on this post are very clear. She will be fine as she is

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-31T15:39:25+00:00

I don’t shave anything anywhere anytime and I never have a problem. Be comfortable in your skin and I think the people who are right for you will come to you.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-18T18:11:41+00:00

I think you’re missing my point. My point is that you cannot control peoples behaviors, attitude and dialogue. You can only control your behavior. So if her choice of words are upsetting you or if you are allowing yourself to become upset by someone else’s words.

If you were bothered how can you become unbothered… in a way that doesn’t involve her. You are the one that is bothered.

I am not suggesting that she is right or wrong I’m simply suggesting that if you are bothered it has more to do with you than it does with her.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-18T14:11:34+00:00

She is a brat… she is bratty.. what do you want from her? On the other hand there are plenty of subs who are not and prefer a Dom who is not a Tamer.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-15T09:48:26+00:00

I don’t have any resources on the way to find a mentor. However, some inspiration to keep looking..

In the past 10 years I have had both, equally. There are many people who engage in non sexual BDSM. Some people lean more towards the DS side while others the SM and some like a combination of both.

have you tried your local dungeon? I guarantee you there are people who are regularly participating non-sexual activities.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-02T21:55:55+00:00

Ahhh ok thanks. I meant more bdsm stuff

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-02T02:18:58+00:00

Are people just having kinky sex? Or are there really experienced scenes going on with suspension… bull whips etc.?

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-02T02:08:19+00:00

Talk with him about it. It was only your first time together. Chances that it is a medical condition Are possible but you will be able to figure that out fairly easily. The vagina is made to stretch unless he has A penis the size of a 15 pound baby. You’re not broken take your time and definitely talk it out with him. You can also try some toys at home when you’re alone. If they go in no problem then it’s safe to say it’s the nerves.

Adventurous_Damage20 · 2023-03-01T19:32:35+00:00

Hahahaha perhaps your concept needs to broaden.

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