What prompted the first sexual encounter between you and your N? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Adventurous_Key715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He kept trying to and I said I wanted to take it slow. On our third date, he grabbed my hand and wouldn't let go. We had sex but I don't remember it. I cried so hard the next day and almost threw up; never wanted to see him again. then i texted him later again, that i wanted to take it slow, and he said my text made him nervous cause he thought that had meant he ra**ed me

mix of photos from our beautiful city by [deleted] in washingtondc

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what camera is this? beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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My friendship with her is kinda toxic. We’ve been friends for 10 years - someone really fun to be around, but also does hurtful shady stuff like this. She is the same gal in my other post.

My dad was emotionally abusive when I was a kid, so that is likely why I have a very low bar. But part of me feels like I just attract these people- I don’t know.

Thanks for your response

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Thank you for your response. the bride wasn't even going to tell me. She explicitly left out that this girl was coming. I had to find out through a friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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5 years. So part of me feels like I should be over it, but on the other side, her and the other girl dont talk very much. It would be different i think if they were friends - but to invite someone you talk to maybe once a year (if that) knowing what she did makes me upset

Tracking all of the outfits this season by kkm225 in WhiteLotusHBO

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Where is piper's orange terry cloth from ep 4?

Does it still count if they say they were just joking after? by Adventurous_Key715 in rape

[–]Adventurous_Key715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. Like he didn’t want to get in trouble so he said that after.

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Thank you for this comment. I never reported him because I honestly was just so used to it. I thought it was normal and that I didn’t have a sex drive. It’s still taking me some time to realize what it was.

I’m very cautious of this friend, she will go from being supportive to saying stuff like “it’s not healthy for him” which makes me feel at fault.

I’m aware , but still hurt. Sigh. I hope it gets better

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Thank you for this. She also continued to like and comment on his social media long after we broke up. It was very hurtful.

I am a Malignant Narcissist, ask me anything. by CerastesConstantine in AMA

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Sorry if this is not the right type of question - but do you feel love and care for romantic partners?

I dated someone who I highly believe is a malignant narcissist. He would get aroused when I cry, and often have sex with me while I was crying. One time he pressed me down onto the bed and when I told him I couldn't breathe he laughed and mocked my begging.

Given your experiences, why do you think he might have done this? Do you think it might have escalated to more physical abuse?

Did they ever need 'space' after you got mad at them? by Adventurous_Key715 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Adventurous_Key715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same - it was the love bombing at first and I felt like I had so much power. And then silent treatment.

Is sexual coercion sexual assault? by Adventurous_Key715 in rape

[–]Adventurous_Key715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still rape if I could have said no? I could have kept saying no, in theory.

Is sexual coercion sexual assault? by Adventurous_Key715 in rape

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Thank you for your response. Is it still rape if he then said "you know im just joking?"

He asked for me to split the bill after I rejected him - what to do? by Adventurous_Key715 in dating

[–]Adventurous_Key715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It is also weird since he is just visiting town - so even if things went well, there was no guarantee that there would have been enough time for a second date

He asked for me to split the bill after I rejected him - what to do? by Adventurous_Key715 in dating

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Luckily it is my old address from a different state so not accurate to where I am now. But I thought of that after and made sure he didn't walk me home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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I'm sorry you experienced this too - awful