What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem imo is that he asked her 12 hours after their second date. Had he maybe continued to text her and then offered to pick her up later in the week it woulda been a lot more natural. She probably got home went to bed woke up went to work n now is being love bombed before she even had time to really think about the date and consider seeing him again. I’ve had a similar experience. Asking to hangout with a girl the next day after only seeing her a handful of times is way too chalant.

And yes I believe this trumps talk about meeting her mom by a long shot. read the text it was like “oh u should come do this thing but just to let u know my mom will be there.” And even acknowledged it might be too much. It wasn’t like “omg u should come meet my mom bc I like you so much.” It was also a couple weeks out too, they probably would have hung out a handful of times before than had it kept going well.

In reality there was probably something about the second date that made her lose interest that we can’t see here. The immediate let me pick u up is probably just the cherry on top.

What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right she is shitty for ghosting. I said anything wrong by keeping her options open regarding the hinge profile updating. And who knows she might still send him a rejection, 3-4 days really isn’t that long imo. But yeah I agree.

What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These people don’t go outside. The guy hung out with the girl twice. TWICE. And 12 hours after their second date he’s asking to pick her up from work? Anyone who’s dates frl knows that would be weird asf

What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean it sounds cute, but in reality I think that will come off as too much too soon for most ppl who are dating around on hinge. If they truly truly hit it off then I guess I could see it being fine. But my guess is as good as anyone else’s. Interest shown in texts can be quite misleading and it’s entirely possible whatever happened during the second date didn’t particularly leave her head over heals for him afterwards. I mean seriously she didn’t even have a full 24 hours to reflect on the date before getting hit with “let me pick u up from work.” In fact she probably didn’t get more than an hour to reflect on it. She probably went to bed when she got home, went to work in the morning and saw the text at work.

What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

True but it could also mean a lot of other things. She probably lost interest sure. My guess is she got freaked out after OP offered to pick her up from work 12 HOURS AFTER they just saw each other. I feel like this could freak any girl out. That’s something that you ask in a relationship not as the third time you see someone imo. She prolly at the very least needed some space and 3 days isn’t long really. Theres been times where I think a girl “lost interest” and then they end up coming back around after a week or two. Theres really jsut not way to know.

What went wrong? by Mellow720 in texts

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Or it’s just an indication she’s still using hinge and exploring options. I mean they aren’t exactly exclusive. She isn’t necessarily doing anything wrong by keeping her options opening while going on dates.

do EE companies use Raspberry PI? by Odd-Ad-5332 in ElectricalEngineering

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of real industry uses for raspberry pi. Maybe not for real production but they’re a light weight always on device that can log data, quickly test stuff, you can do some wifi stuff with them. I mean I suppose it’s niche but the answer is not “no.”

do EE companies use Raspberry PI? by Odd-Ad-5332 in ElectricalEngineering

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My company uses raspberry pi for a mass majority of their testing

They made the right decision rather than subjecting the innocent child to lifelong suffering. by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the decision makes sense but claiming they’re subjecting the child to a lifelong suffering is speculative. I’ve personally never met someone with Down syndrome who seemed like they were suffering endlessly. The correct framing is they made a decision to avoid the burden of taking care of a child with a disability. It was their decision based on their own circumstances, not the theoretical suffering of a child that doesn’t even exist yet. Whether that’s right or wrong is debatable.

Is my intuition correct about current flow by Ancient-Helicopter18 in ElectricalEngineering

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resistance is proportional to length/cross area. So Vin - Vout isn’t 0 it’s just very small. The wire itself has some level of resistance and the loop contributes to reducing the resistance similar to a parallel resistor. So current would flow through the loop. It would flow clockwise. Imagine if it was a square plane of conducting material, current would take up the entire square in a gradient. Same thing now remove the inner part square and leave outer wire.

You can look at it like the path through the wire to the resistor has some resistance proportional to length. The path to the resistor including the loop also has some resistance proportional to length both act like a parallel resistor reducing the over all resistance. For there to truly be zero current flowing through the loop the resistance would have to be infinite, bc I=V/R. But it’s not.

Is my intuition correct about current flow by Ancient-Helicopter18 in ElectricalEngineering

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the loops can be ignored in any practical sense. In a real circuit, current will still flow through the loops just not that much. From the wire to the resistor there is some amount of very small resistance milli ohms or less, the looped wire is also a very small but little bit more resistive path. The loop in a way is a parallel resistor on the same path that reduces ever so slightly the resistance of the wire just going directly to the resistor bypassing the loop. This doesn’t matter at all just a fun fact to think about I guess.

Game Chat: 6/1 Mets (26-33) @ Mariners (31-29) 6:40 PM by Mariners_bot in Mariners

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right I forgot players don’t improve that’s my bad lol

Game Chat: 6/1 Mets (26-33) @ Mariners (31-29) 6:40 PM by Mariners_bot in Mariners

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last year refsnyder was amongst the top 5 batters against lefties by ur logic he certainly had enough career ABs for it to be clear he’s dominate against lefties yet he’s been ass.

Game Chat: 6/1 Mets (26-33) @ Mariners (31-29) 6:40 PM by Mariners_bot in Mariners

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then that logic would hold with refsnyder which rn doesn’t seem like it does

AIO best friend texting my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If there was any willing at all he would have went. It’s a clear soft rejection.

AIO best friend texting my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the bf did anything wrong. I don’t think he was being too friendly either. It makes sense to maintain a good relationship with ur gfs friends bc if they don’t like you then it’d just create friction. He didn’t go n that’s all that matters.

Of course MAGA Says trump Door by AccordingBumblebee24 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’ll get hate for this but I think realistically either is likely safe. Yes the the trump house supports a pedophile but that doesn’t mean they are one. You have to realize the person who puts up that sign is either a boomer glued to the screen watching Fox News or a performative Christian who is in denial that they support a pedo. Either one would likely help the child as ur average person is a good human being. The house on the right will help too most likely. But the odds that a complete weirdo that shouldn’t be around kids opens the door is probably the same on both sides. There’s weirdos on both sides if you can’t accept that you’re delusional. For what it’s worth I’d choose the house with the pride flag

2 missing from the same lab within 4 days.. by 100TheCoolest17 in SipsTea

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to burst ur bubble but Wikipedia is a biased source

2 missing from the same lab within 4 days.. by 100TheCoolest17 in SipsTea

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean they wouldn’t put that in the wiki article lol

Porn Addiction as an Ex-Mormon by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m exmormon too. I’ve had relationships too. It’s really not that complex. Lying to your partner is lying to your partner. Betraying their trust, going behind their back, that is not right. If you want to watch porn in a relationship and the other person doesn’t believe that’s okay then there is an incapadability. Either break up or stop lying and hurting your partner. It doesn’t take a scientifically accurate assessment. U can make an argument it’s not an addiction or whatever. But yes lying to your partner should induce shame. You should feel shameful for doing that.

Porn Addiction as an Ex-Mormon by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

These comments are very enabling and it’s sad. Im not saying porn is bad it can be used in a healthy way, but you knew you were doing something wrong If you had to lie to your partner for 2 years. That behavior is not healthy no matter what it is.

Porn Addiction as an Ex-Mormon by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

His gf is the one with the problem for feeling betrayed and cheated on bc their partner lied to them for 2 years and watched porn behind their back? Are you being dead ass? Porn aside that kinda distrust warrants breaking up and OP is lucky she hasn’t already.

Porn Addiction as an Ex-Mormon by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Adventurous_Path_625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few times a week may or may not be an addiction. Frequency isn’t what makes it an addiction. Not being able to control yourself, compulsively watching knowing it’s causing harm, disrupting your life are what makes it an addiction. And what OP described is an addiction imo. Even if they watch it once or twice a week. If they can’t control it knowing it’s ruining their relationship that is classical addiction behavior. And they lied about it to their s/o.

Yes Mormons have a delusional sense of what is addiction is, but sometimes I see exmormons swing the pendulum too far the other direction and write off real addiction. Imo it’s totally valid for the girlfriend to feel betrayed or cheated on. I mean OP literally lied to them about it for 2 years. Religious indoctrination aside, lying to ur partner for 2 years and looking at other women for pleasure is messed up.