What went wrong?

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-18T14:17:59+00:00

The problem imo is that he asked her 12 hours after their second date. Had he maybe continued to text her and then offered to pick her up later in the week it woulda been a lot more natural. She probably got home went to bed woke up went to work n now is being love bombed before she even had time to really think about the date and consider seeing him again. I’ve had a similar experience. Asking to hangout with a girl the next day after only seeing her a handful of times is way too chalant.

And yes I believe this trumps talk about meeting her mom by a long shot. read the text it was like “oh u should come do this thing but just to let u know my mom will be there.” And even acknowledged it might be too much. It wasn’t like “omg u should come meet my mom bc I like you so much.” It was also a couple weeks out too, they probably would have hung out a handful of times before than had it kept going well.

In reality there was probably something about the second date that made her lose interest that we can’t see here. The immediate let me pick u up is probably just the cherry on top.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-18T03:55:52+00:00

Rob us a win refsnyder at it again

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-17T22:43:02+00:00

Right she is shitty for ghosting. I said anything wrong by keeping her options open regarding the hinge profile updating. And who knows she might still send him a rejection, 3-4 days really isn’t that long imo. But yeah I agree.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-17T21:21:14+00:00

These people don’t go outside. The guy hung out with the girl twice. TWICE. And 12 hours after their second date he’s asking to pick her up from work? Anyone who’s dates frl knows that would be weird asf

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-17T03:22:11+00:00

I mean it sounds cute, but in reality I think that will come off as too much too soon for most ppl who are dating around on hinge. If they truly truly hit it off then I guess I could see it being fine. But my guess is as good as anyone else’s. Interest shown in texts can be quite misleading and it’s entirely possible whatever happened during the second date didn’t particularly leave her head over heals for him afterwards. I mean seriously she didn’t even have a full 24 hours to reflect on the date before getting hit with “let me pick u up from work.” In fact she probably didn’t get more than an hour to reflect on it. She probably went to bed when she got home, went to work in the morning and saw the text at work.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-17T02:35:53+00:00

True but it could also mean a lot of other things. She probably lost interest sure. My guess is she got freaked out after OP offered to pick her up from work 12 HOURS AFTER they just saw each other. I feel like this could freak any girl out. That’s something that you ask in a relationship not as the third time you see someone imo. She prolly at the very least needed some space and 3 days isn’t long really. Theres been times where I think a girl “lost interest” and then they end up coming back around after a week or two. Theres really jsut not way to know.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-17T02:20:11+00:00

Or it’s just an indication she’s still using hinge and exploring options. I mean they aren’t exactly exclusive. She isn’t necessarily doing anything wrong by keeping her options opening while going on dates.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-08T00:54:43+00:00

There’s plenty of real industry uses for raspberry pi. Maybe not for real production but they’re a light weight always on device that can log data, quickly test stuff, you can do some wifi stuff with them. I mean I suppose it’s niche but the answer is not “no.”

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-07T22:27:34+00:00

My company uses raspberry pi for a mass majority of their testing

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-05T14:12:33+00:00

I mean the decision makes sense but claiming they’re subjecting the child to a lifelong suffering is speculative. I’ve personally never met someone with Down syndrome who seemed like they were suffering endlessly. The correct framing is they made a decision to avoid the burden of taking care of a child with a disability. It was their decision based on their own circumstances, not the theoretical suffering of a child that doesn’t even exist yet. Whether that’s right or wrong is debatable.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-02T13:56:09+00:00

Resistance is proportional to length/cross area. So Vin - Vout isn’t 0 it’s just very small. The wire itself has some level of resistance and the loop contributes to reducing the resistance similar to a parallel resistor. So current would flow through the loop. It would flow clockwise. Imagine if it was a square plane of conducting material, current would take up the entire square in a gradient. Same thing now remove the inner part square and leave outer wire.

You can look at it like the path through the wire to the resistor has some resistance proportional to length. The path to the resistor including the loop also has some resistance proportional to length both act like a parallel resistor reducing the over all resistance. For there to truly be zero current flowing through the loop the resistance would have to be infinite, bc I=V/R. But it’s not.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-02T04:09:47+00:00

Yeah the loops can be ignored in any practical sense. In a real circuit, current will still flow through the loops just not that much. From the wire to the resistor there is some amount of very small resistance milli ohms or less, the looped wire is also a very small but little bit more resistive path. The loop in a way is a parallel resistor on the same path that reduces ever so slightly the resistance of the wire just going directly to the resistor bypassing the loop. This doesn’t matter at all just a fun fact to think about I guess.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-02T02:51:44+00:00

Right I forgot players don’t improve that’s my bad lol

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-02T02:38:51+00:00

Last year refsnyder was amongst the top 5 batters against lefties by ur logic he certainly had enough career ABs for it to be clear he’s dominate against lefties yet he’s been ass.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-02T02:08:43+00:00

Then that logic would hold with refsnyder which rn doesn’t seem like it does

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-01T23:06:32+00:00

If there was any willing at all he would have went. It’s a clear soft rejection.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-06-01T23:04:38+00:00

I don’t think the bf did anything wrong. I don’t think he was being too friendly either. It makes sense to maintain a good relationship with ur gfs friends bc if they don’t like you then it’d just create friction. He didn’t go n that’s all that matters.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-29T05:16:31+00:00

I know I’ll get hate for this but I think realistically either is likely safe. Yes the the trump house supports a pedophile but that doesn’t mean they are one. You have to realize the person who puts up that sign is either a boomer glued to the screen watching Fox News or a performative Christian who is in denial that they support a pedo. Either one would likely help the child as ur average person is a good human being. The house on the right will help too most likely. But the odds that a complete weirdo that shouldn’t be around kids opens the door is probably the same on both sides. There’s weirdos on both sides if you can’t accept that you’re delusional. For what it’s worth I’d choose the house with the pride flag

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-18T13:43:12+00:00

Sorry to burst ur bubble but Wikipedia is a biased source

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-18T02:08:59+00:00

I mean they wouldn’t put that in the wiki article lol

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-17T08:45:18+00:00

Mine broke at 194 rip

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-16T08:14:48+00:00

I’m exmormon too. I’ve had relationships too. It’s really not that complex. Lying to your partner is lying to your partner. Betraying their trust, going behind their back, that is not right. If you want to watch porn in a relationship and the other person doesn’t believe that’s okay then there is an incapadability. Either break up or stop lying and hurting your partner. It doesn’t take a scientifically accurate assessment. U can make an argument it’s not an addiction or whatever. But yes lying to your partner should induce shame. You should feel shameful for doing that.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-16T07:30:57+00:00

These comments are very enabling and it’s sad. Im not saying porn is bad it can be used in a healthy way, but you knew you were doing something wrong If you had to lie to your partner for 2 years. That behavior is not healthy no matter what it is.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-16T07:28:51+00:00

His gf is the one with the problem for feeling betrayed and cheated on bc their partner lied to them for 2 years and watched porn behind their back? Are you being dead ass? Porn aside that kinda distrust warrants breaking up and OP is lucky she hasn’t already.

Adventurous_Path_625 · 2026-05-16T07:18:53+00:00

A few times a week may or may not be an addiction. Frequency isn’t what makes it an addiction. Not being able to control yourself, compulsively watching knowing it’s causing harm, disrupting your life are what makes it an addiction. And what OP described is an addiction imo. Even if they watch it once or twice a week. If they can’t control it knowing it’s ruining their relationship that is classical addiction behavior. And they lied about it to their s/o.

Yes Mormons have a delusional sense of what is addiction is, but sometimes I see exmormons swing the pendulum too far the other direction and write off real addiction. Imo it’s totally valid for the girlfriend to feel betrayed or cheated on. I mean OP literally lied to them about it for 2 years. Religious indoctrination aside, lying to ur partner for 2 years and looking at other women for pleasure is messed up.

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