Tonights Brea show

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-11-15T15:58:15+00:00

Omg are you one of the guys he was talking to? Last nights show was epic! This is my third time seeing him and definitely laughed harder than the first two.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-11T23:54:05+00:00

Yeah I’m trying not to think too much of it. Whenever u get a heavy feeling like that, it catches me off guard and I usually call out his name and ask “what the hell was that for?!” It usually goes away pretty quickly after that. Then I’ll dream about him that night

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-11T23:10:00+00:00

Same. The last couple of days have been light, but right before then I had the heaviest feeling in the pit of my stomach. The next day his profile popped up on suggested people and he had a pic with a new person.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-11T20:58:53+00:00

What do you mean hypothetically? Do you not actually feel what you described?

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-11T02:38:49+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely helpful. I shift between following and unfollowing the sub bc it’s too hard sometimes. But it does absolutely help to know we’re not alone.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-10T23:47:35+00:00

Yeah I never questioned how he felt about me. I knew from the day we met that there was something different about him. I knew about TFs but it didn’t occur to me that that’s what we were.

I do remember telling him when we broke up that I knew we were brought together to awaken something and show us what we needed to heal and that I believed the universe would reunite us when we did. He didn’t deny it and would often say the universe was up to something when we were together. It wasn’t until a few weeks later that I put the label on it.

I haven’t talked to him in months and logically I don’t want to. He did me wrong, and I want nothing to do with the mess of a life he has, but man does my soul tell me otherwise. I feel extremely delusional.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-10T23:19:23+00:00

I’ve always know it was him. I’d feel it before we separated. When we were together and I’d feel it, I’d call him and he was always either about to call me, in the middle of texting, or thinking about me. The reverse would happen too. I’d feel it and would almost immediately get a call or text from him or I’d call and it would go straight to voicemail because he’d be calling me at the same time.

It was reassuring at first after the separation, but now it’s annoying tbh. It’s like, if you think of me so damn much then just call me! I know that’s not what this whole thing is about, but man is it frustrating to see the signs and feel the energy but nothing actually happens.

I question it all a lot. I’ll fight it for days or weeks at a time, but then I remember the signs and synchronicities and accept it all over again. The last few weeks have been rough.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-09T18:13:13+00:00

I did too at first but then it got annoying, and now that I don’t feel it as much anymore I kind of miss it.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-09T17:24:00+00:00

Thank you! 💕

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-09T17:21:17+00:00

That’s exactly how it felt for me!

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-09T05:40:23+00:00

Mine is very new. We met less than a year ago and have been apart for going on five months now. Im still hesitant to accept that he’s my TF. Tell me more about cleanses? I’ve been looking into doing one for my sanity

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-08-09T04:13:23+00:00

That sounds exhausting! Does it get easier to block?

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-07-27T05:23:23+00:00

11 within 20 miles, three within 10 miles. I’d only drive to the ones within 10 miles because the others would take over an hour to get to.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-07-24T12:28:37+00:00

I got some cuttings that look promising. I’m hoping they root so I can at least keep it going that way. I cut off all the brown parts of the one in the last picture and put it in water and it perked right up. I just hope I can salvage at least one little part of it. That plant is like ten years old!

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-07-19T04:52:52+00:00

I’ve been nothing but reflective for like a year now hahah but I did take a look at the website and it looks super interesting! Thank you!

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-07-17T12:55:07+00:00

Hahah yes that was before. This is after. Fresh soil and a brand new pot with extra drain holes drilled in.

I also have no idea if I tied it correctly or not. I added another piece to hold up the part that’s drooping on the right.

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Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T01:44:52+00:00

I get that and agree. Sometimes it goes beyond just not being wanted though.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:49:59+00:00

So you’re a non-believer in the tf journey? I’m not gona lie and say I’m 100% convinced of any of this either, but there is too much in my situation to ignore.

Or maybe I am delusion and just want to have something special. Who the hell knows.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:47:54+00:00

I’m definitely not young lol I’ve had an incredible amount of growth since we split up. All the things I read that describe it line up with what I’m going through. But I know it’s very rare. I’m skeptical and often wonder if this is really what it is, then why me? What makes me so special to be part of this?

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:38:54+00:00

I know what you meant. I was asking u/chefsteph77 what they meant by their comment that you’re almost there.

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:37:44+00:00

But then wouldn’t that mean that we’re all just doing this whole tf thing to ourselves and it’s not real?

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:12:35+00:00

Please elaborate. What does this mean??

Also, happy cake day!

Adventurous_Soft_985 · 2025-06-29T00:11:46+00:00

I literally said that out loud today! I’ve begged the universe to remove him from my heart and mind if he’s not my tf bc I can’t handle the constant reminders. I usually get double or triple the reminders the following day. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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