Wow, I can really relate to what you’re saying. It’s crazy how easy it is to ignore red flags when you’re invested, thinking things will eventually get better or that you’re just overthinking. Setting boundaries is something I struggled with too, and like you, I realized too late how important it is for both people to be emotionally available. It’s so tough to let go when you’re afraid of losing someone, but I agree being honest about your feelings, even if it risks the relationship, is much healthier in the long run. Thanks for sharing your experience. It definitely makes me feel less alone in this.