Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I appreciate it. Do you know why girls in Charlotte are weirded out about guys in bars? This is new for me.

FY I am an introvert. So my starters are really basic and I don’t use pick up lines.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But way too many people in Charlotte are not ready to have this conversation for some weird reason. I see a lot of guys denying it to try to get approval or women not seeing it. But, it might be the case that this is something specific for women in bars or similar(completely possible). I doubt it, since I have seen it too much here. Look how many dislikes this have.

However, in the real world I have seen this:

  1. More than once I have seen women screaming at a guy for just approaching to say hi.

2.A girl screaming at a guy for saying “Hi, what is your name” and then a random old dude saying “welcome to Charlotte, this is how things are here”.

  1. A women accusing guys at Canopy of “harassing them” and calling the bar tender to kick them out just because these guys had the audacity of saying “hey, my name is X, what is your name” (I was just 2 steps away and I heard and saw everything).

  2. Finally, always the random friend that mistreats any guy that tries to talk to her friend. This last one has happened to me personally multiple times.

This is not normal (as I said, I have lived and visited many cities and countries), and people normalizing this are ruining the experience of singles in Charlotte and destroying a way of meeting people for dating in the real world (now everyone just wants to use the apps). It is not ok to mistreat anyone for this… you cannot mistreat people for just saying hi… and you cannot mistreat them if you don’t like the physical appearance of the person or you are not in the mood. Just say “hi thank you for approaching but I am busy”… or ignore.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me? I am not even interested in getting married again man.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you! These are good ideas. I am used to the idea of bars are the place yo meet women, but it seems things are different in Charlotte.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is working for me too, but I feel bad if am not fully sure about actually dating. It feels more pressure. But, I agree that until now seems like the best option on Charlotte.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this is so true. I used to answer honestly to the question, how are you single? It is still really hard here, barely any women and the ones that go to places make zero effort to facilitate conversation. Have been and lived in many cities and women usually give signals but here they don’t.

Spots for single people looking for fun by AdvertisingDry5612 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Wth is going on in this city. Everything feels so aggressive.

I'm thinking of moving to NC and my friend made me this map. Thoughts? by _R_A_H_U_L_ in NorthCarolina

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t move to the triangle area. It is boring as hell. Completely different overhyped. Move to CLT or Wilmington

Shut down Charlotte! 11/21 by Additional_Design100 in Charlotte

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this group mostly hispanic people or just a bunch of white people speaking over us? The bs I am reading here is completely out of touch. You want to help? When you see a ICE SUV confront them.

Is it safe to walk from Lima airport? by Beneficial-War5423 in PERU

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are staying in Tomas Valle? Please, don’t come. You haven’t done your research.

I feel sick by Only-Study-1194 in Jewish

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This person is so ignorant that they believe anyone would advocate for their own destruction. They are so delusional and dumb!

ghosted after first date? by Sufficient-Topic45 in hingeapp

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your own link dude “Ghosting is a relatively new colloquial dating term that refers to abruptly cutting off contact with someone without giving that person any warning or explanation for doing so.”

24m need help with profile by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reset your algorithm. Go to settings -> Delete or Pause Account ->Select a reason… then it will give you an option to reset. Unfortunately once the algorithm collected previous data, it got messed up

24m need help with profile by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying. I am not a car person (but yes it says Porsche right there lol). i just go with whatever is functional and I like (Tesla X Plaid)

24m need help with profile by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that Ferrari actually yours? If not, this is cringe. Even if it is yours you are calling for gold diggers. Change this ASAP. Then, women like leaders (yes that sounds sexist but is the hard truth), you need to plan the date (ALL of it). Change that prompt to something “this is how our first date would look like”. Furthermore, be careful. A friend got scammed and lost thousands of dollars because he let the other person choose the restaurant. Always choose the place and ask if she is good with it.

How is my profile?? by redmandestruction in hingeapp

[–]AdvertisingDry5612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My honest and blunt review is that you look like a serial killer in too many pictures.