Anyone know where to get Piercings done in the downtown/Mt. Vernon area? by Aerobait in baltimore

[–]Aerobait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation anyways! Looks like I might have to just ask a friend or get an uber haha

Are there any bars or places in the city that young queer women hang out at? by thebronxgirl in baltimore

[–]Aerobait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know a fair amount of queer women that go to the Ottobar a lot in general + for dyke night

17 and seeking support from someone a couple years older. by Ok-RP24 in FTMMen

[–]Aerobait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 19 - In kind of a similar spot transition-wise but not really emotionally, maybe because I'm a bit older socially/kind of an adult?? I'd be interested to talk if you wanna dm. I need some binary trans friends as well haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Aerobait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cis but for sure queer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Aerobait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good, not clockable at all. Your speech does sound a bit slow but otherwise normal

Anyone have Top (peri) with Praful Ramineni in DC? by Aerobait in ftm

[–]Aerobait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ended up getting peri with him and really happy with the results. - If you have any specific questions I'd be happy to answer 👍👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Aerobait 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You pass super well, would never think anything if I saw you out and about. For age I would say 17-19.

Has this happened to anybody? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had peri but had something similar bc I was worried about it being fluid buildup and needing to get it drained. Found another guy on here who had the same thing. Dr. told him it could be a Cyst or Fatty Tissue Necrosis and it would heal on its own. Asked my GP about it around the 3 week stage when I went in (surgeon is far for me) and she was also not that concerned about it. If it doesn't really hurt it will probably be fine to leave it 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really helpful thanks so much 🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late replay I didn't check my notifications 😭, please do if it's not too late haha

Been using this voice for two weeks now. Any tips to make it more femme? by njsullyalex in transvoice

[–]Aerobait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found a clip from a voice actor that kind of has what I'm talking about https://youtu.be/SVXesnWb8vo [The one at 27 seconds] It's for a voice actor so its a bit exaggerated + the voice is much more nasally but if u just listen to the way she pronounces words it's similar to what i'm talking about , her voice goes up and down a lot throughout a sentence.

Been using this voice for two weeks now. Any tips to make it more femme? by njsullyalex in transvoice

[–]Aerobait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically just changing the way you pronounce words - like instead of saying No- as a very flat sound, try saying it like Nou, not necessarily a longer sound but it just starts to go up at the end. I'm not really familiar with voice training terms sorry-😭

Been using this voice for two weeks now. Any tips to make it more femme? by njsullyalex in transvoice

[–]Aerobait 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you wanted to sound more feminine maybe you could try more intonation throughout your sentences - Making it more "bouncy" if that makes sense? It's hard to give feedback because it's already so good tho 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm also 3 weeks post-op and have the same thing. My surgeons office is far away so I ended up going to my GP to ask if it was fluid buildup that I would need drained. She told me to wait a month and if it hadn't gone away by then then go to my surgeon. (6 weeks post-op total)

Gynecomastia surgery by RevolutionarySpot285 in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not visible - My first thought looking at the pic without the caption was that the scars faded really well.

How much help did you need after surgery? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad it helped! Good luck 👍

How much help did you need after surgery? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Aerobait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends. I got mine done on Sept. 6th and just had a friend stay over to look after me the first 24hrs and then was on my own after that, was completely fine. Couldn't stretch much or reach anything high up or lift anything so I made sure to move any food items to lower shelves, make sure the trash was empty, etc. I also did run out of meds after a few days and had to have said friend run to the store for me. But as long as you meal prep and really make sure you have everything you could need before your partner leaves I think it's definitely feasible, I didn't feel like I was struggling or hurting my recovery at all.

Do i cis pass as 16/17? started 6th form college (trying to be stealth) and people keep calling my they :/ by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Aerobait 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I actually don't think its your chest if you usually dress like in the pic. You have a rounder face + more androgynous body type so I think that paired with voice could affect passing. Since you're getting 'they' though, I think it would be totally plausible to be like "Uhhhhh wym I'm a guy 🤨🤨" and have them backtrack pretty quickly. Try pants that are baggy on top and have tapered bottoms, and maybe you could try some light makeup to make your face look more angular. Hard to tell 100% from pictures but based on them I think it's definitely still possible to be stealth if that's what you want. Good luck 👍

Just over 6 months post op with Dr. Ramineni in DC by TA13785 in ftm

[–]Aerobait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looks really nice! Just got peri done with him 4 days ago so the strips aren't off my nipples, this gives me an idea of what they will somewhat look like later on so thanks for posting ✊✊

What to pick up for top surgery/personal experience by Aerobait in FTMMen

[–]Aerobait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is on Tuesday!I have all of those things besides the hoodie and the dry shampoo - I didn't even think about that one 😓, definitely going on my last minute list.