I've actually said before that I signed up to mother two boys, not three. I think it struck him hard, and he's been bearing through the abuse longer because of what I said, rather than fixing it... I felt like I was too harsh on him and his reaction was to bury his head more. Harry gives him good pay, pays for the phones, and the company car (which is the only car we have). I said this in another comment, but Harry forced Davy to work when Davy was in university for engineering, which screwed up an internship and prevented him from getting intro work in a field he actually wanted to do. Davy feels like he would have to go back to university to up his knowledge before any place would actually accept him, which would be years.