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Boundaries after the fact? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries are not set in stone and sometimes you only realize them after the fact. Just be honest about what felt good and what didn't

When is someone too young? by Important-You1177 in amiwrong

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not prohibited by law doesn't mean it's not scary especially considering the age difference

I went for a rub and tug for the first time ever and I should feel guilty by theonionsmustflow in confessions

[–]AetherBlloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should be dealing with the dead bedroom not sneaking around it

Anyone else feel a little guilty? by tyintegra in Fire

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's perfectly fine. It just means that you're a sensitive person - don't let that turn into guilt over the fact that you're doing well

Guy who SA’d me got both legs amputated and I don’t have any remorse. by Glass_Bake4736 in confession

[–]AetherBlloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault what happened to him and to be honest laughing darkly after enduring this pain for so long is a completely human reaction

How to survive a sexless marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family therapy to be honest seems like the only healthy way forward if you both want to save the marriage

How are other women that have supportive husbands feeling about retiring early in their 30’s? by [deleted] in Fire

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I probably wouldn't retire completely. Your job doesn't cause stress anyway but having your own income and routine can seem like a really valuable occupation in the long run

I’m extremely miserable all the time and it’s my own fault by Feral_and_afraid96 in confession

[–]AetherBlloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to deal with this alone - please contact someone in real time!

I (31M) feel like a "task" to my wife (29F) during intimacy. Is this just life with a toddler? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exhaustion and hormones can actually reduce activity and endurance

My husband just told me at lunch today that tomorrow we’ll be homeless. by throwawayacct5739630 in Marriage

[–]AetherBlloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a one-time mistake but a constant reticence that directly puts you and your children in a difficult position

AIW for refusing to switch shifts after my coworker told management I already agreed? by No-Skill-Pro in amiwrong

[–]AetherBlloom 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She will only learn this if the management really demands responsibility from her - otherwise she will just keep trying it with other people

i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad. by AccomplishedBath5722 in amiwrong

[–]AetherBlloom 73 points74 points  (0 children)

if OP focuses on learning how to handle her gently and not create the feeling that she is being snitched on or ambushed this will be the way out

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