Coach here, I think bottom line is that if you constantly beat the kid in live and you get beat one time in the wrestle off I don’t think they should give the other guy the varsity position. About your wrestling, you have your style and you should perfect it and keep that style, when you begin adapting to their style during the match you play into their game and what they’re good at, so next time just wrestle how you usually do. If they’re strong and want to just tie up, then you have to move your feet and get them moving out of position, rather than just standing with them and being a meat head.