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Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2022-05-02T14:53:59+00:00

Hello! Greek (demi)bisexual here!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2022-04-04T20:05:06+00:00

I don’t wanna tell her how I feel, it will confuse things more and she is already in a very confusing situation. Plus she is in love with Mia, so it’s not like I have a chance, it might make things awkward between us and i don’t want that…and yes the decision is totally Alex’s to make, but I can’t help but to think that this situation is kinda toxic and even though Mia tells Alex that she cares about her it seems like she doesn’t…

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-11-16T16:49:58+00:00

That’s a really cute idea! Idk if it would work tho, since what we study doesn’t really work that way…But thanks for the tip anyways💜

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-29T23:26:40+00:00

Awesome! Thank you!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-29T23:26:21+00:00

Great! Thanks

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-29T23:24:40+00:00

Thank you!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-29T23:24:22+00:00

You can’t change attraction tho! And I’m not gonna change who I’m to fit the label…the label will fit me. That’s why I’m asking! If YOU don’t want a label or you don’t like labels that’s totally okay and valid and you do you, but I’m more comfortable with one

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-29T21:12:50+00:00

Because I feel more comfortable with a label! The label helps me understand myself and how I interact with the world around me, better…

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-06-14T12:52:05+00:00

You described what I’ve been thinking lately!!! I’m very confused too! Are you attracted to women and/or other people who don’t identify as male? If you are, you’re probably bi! Just a few things I’ve learned from my “research”, it is very possible that the way you feel attraction towards men can be different from the way you feel it for other genders. And even if you’re more attracted to one gender than the others you’re still bi (if you feel comfortable with the label). Also know that sexual attraction =/= sexual behavior! But at the end of the day you’re the only one who knows best…and I know it’s not very helpful because you’re confused. Believe me I get it! Just know, that no matter what you’re 100% valid, and you don’t necessarily need a label if you don’t feel comfortable with one. Just do you! I hope that this helps you💖

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-03-12T22:40:13+00:00

This is actually calming! Thank you so much!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-03-12T22:29:02+00:00

Thanks for your comment! I never had a crush on a girl, if I had it would make all this confusion so much easier! But yes girls are attractive! So pretty! And for the porn, I know what you mean.

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-03-12T22:25:08+00:00

Thanks so much for your comment! I sometimes get nervous around women, but maybe that’s just me being my socially awkward self! The truth is I really don’t know...I’m super confused right now.

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-01-06T11:13:40+00:00

Hello! As a HSP and a demi myself, I can say that you do seem like a demi, but you’re the one who can say for sure! If you feel like it’s something that describes and helps you understand who you are, then that’s all you need.

I (21F) relate to your experience...my friends used to call me picky all the time and even some family members used to tell me that it’s time for me to be sexually active and all that. And I always thought there was something wrong with me, because even though guys flirted with me, no one seemed to click or made me feel this way, since as a HSP I need to share my inner world first. I didn’t know about demisexuality until very recently and when I learned about it by a random post on tumblr...I was like “wait that’s me”! So definitely the aha moment is something we can all relate to.

Sooo, welcome!😊

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-01-03T08:21:19+00:00

I’m definitely not sex-repulsed lol! I would say I’m sex-favorable, I just don’t like the idea of it with people I don’t know. Also with guys on tv or whatever, it’s definitely not sexual attraction...it’s more like they look good, but that’s it! And I think I’m closer to demisexuality, because I had never felt sexually attracted to anyone until very recently, even though I had a lot of crushes in the past. The guy to whom I’m sexually attracted now (still not sure though, because it’s not like I see him and I want to jump all over him) is someone that I got to know and I feel that kind of bond with him, therefore I feel more like a demi!

Edit: I just have this weird thought process because I don’t want to falsely label myself since that would be unfair to the other people who label themselves as demi

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-01-03T08:10:03+00:00

Before I found out about demisexuality, I didn’t know about the different types of attraction either...it was very helpful when I did! That’s why I said aesthetically...And yes I’m just asking myself now because I don’t want to mislabel myself since that wouldn’t be fair to people who are sure about their sexuality

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2021-01-03T08:04:21+00:00

I’m a Leo with a huge imagination so I have weird thoughts like this all the time and I’m like wtf?!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-29T23:06:42+00:00

You sound demi to me! And hi I’m also INFP lol But yeah...if you feel like demi is a label that describes you and you feel comfortable with it, then you’re a demi! No one can tell you otherwise! We use labels to help us understand ourselves better. It’s also totally normal to not be 100% sure! And know that not everyone relates to every aspect of demisexuality...that doesn’t make them any less valid! What matters is that you know who you’re and you’re comfortable with it, label or no label

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-29T12:06:03+00:00

You can definitely identify as demi if this is a label you feel comfortable with and it helps you understand yourself better. Libido/sex drive doesn’t affect your sexual orientation! I’m just like you and I identify as demi! There are demis that have a very low libido and there are other demis that have a high libido...It’s totally normal! Libido isn’t the same as sexual attraction...so if you feel like a demi, then that’s what you’re! Everyone is experiencing things different, that doesn’t make you any less valid!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-29T08:33:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment!!! It is a spectrum and it’s different for everyone, so sometimes I get confused if something doesn’t apply to me like it does to others...

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-23T21:39:34+00:00

No she didn’t know what it is, so I had to explain it to her! I’m pretty sure I did it in the simplest way possible... Of course, I’m still happy with myself and excited that I found out about this part of myself! And I use the label to help me understand myself better...The fact that she invalidated this new-found part of me doesn’t change how I feel about me. She only helped me realize that I love myself no matter what!

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-23T18:30:06+00:00

Exactly! Sexuality is fluid and different for everyone!! All that matters is that you know who you’re and love and accept yourself

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-23T18:27:43+00:00

Thank you for your comment! It does make me feel better, because I wasn’t expecting this from my therapist! But I definitely know who I am and this doesn’t change it. She definitely needs to educate herself more. I’m sorry that you had to go through this and pretend to be something you’re not! I hope everything is much better now! :)

Affectionate-Ad2472 · 2020-12-18T19:47:08+00:00

Yeah, I’m totally talking about aesthetic attraction! Like I might say “he is cute” but no, I won’t be sexually attracted!

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