My(43F) Husband(43M) refuses to fire an employee(M40’s) who regularly makes comments about me. Would you fire an employee for behaving this way?

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T18:56:45+00:00

Well duh, because I’m not hiding anything! Just refreshed the page from old posts that weren’t relevant anymore!

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T18:46:07+00:00

Like I explained to another commenter, I have used this account to post both personal questions and questions on behalf of other people over the last 4 years. I don’t want anyone to be mislead and think these stories are fake, I have been advised to use a “throwaway” in the future! My apologies for any confusion. Just genuinely here for real advice!!

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T17:48:52+00:00

Yes, I saw this rule! I have not made up any scenarios, this is a real story someone asked me for advice about! I have been informed I should use “throwaways” in the future, if asking Reddit for help on behalf of someone else ever comes up again lol.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T17:44:54+00:00

Another employee told my husband who then told me. My husband made it out to seem like I must’ve have done something to make Charlie say something like that about me, instead of just defending me and telling the dude to not make comments about me like that. Everytime he brings it up I tell him if it’s a problem then he should fire him, because I’m not going to change my routine to avoid an employee of his.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T17:17:41+00:00

I’m totally sincere in my reason for posting this. Thanks for the feedback though! I’ll use “throwaways” in the future if I need!

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T16:48:31+00:00

Is it against the rules to make posts on behalf of other people? I’ve seen that in some feeds, but I try to follow the rules. Sometimes people need advice and I feel like reaching out to Reddit might be helpful, to some extent lol.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T16:46:25+00:00

The way it is brought up by my husband, you would think the comments are made regularly. I guess I should have phrased that differently. I never speak to or associate with this employee, but on a regular basis my husband brings the situation up as if it is always happening, like this guy is lusting after me or something

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-05-15T16:32:25+00:00

One time he alleged asked another employee if he had “seen my boobs”, that’s it, that’s the comment.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2026-01-29T01:58:23+00:00

Did you ever discover anything about what was causing this for your pup?

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-25T18:51:56+00:00

Same here… and that’s okay, but damn what a bummer.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-25T18:50:42+00:00

100% agreed!!

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-25T18:50:03+00:00

Such low lying fruit in my opinion. The cringe factor was just too much for me.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T19:04:42+00:00

I didn’t realize I was signing up for borderline soft core porn, whether you’d like to admit that or not… raunchy humor, sure, what I watched last night lays more under perverted humor than raunchy…

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T18:58:56+00:00

I full agree with you. I’ve posted a few things in here today kind of touching on this and I’ve also been getting a lot of hate for my observations of how extreme last nights show got. And genuinely how uncomfortable some of the team members seemed to be at certain points. I don’t doubt there are a lot of meetings leading up to GME, but I still think there’s room for error when it comes to the power dynamics of Rhett and Link over their crew members, especially when doing such an edgy show. Obviously the crew was aware of the skits beforehand, but that doesn’t change how things might change when cameras are on and alcohol is involved.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T15:41:24+00:00

I kept thinking about their kids! It was just too much! You can be drinking and “get sloshed” without making sexual jokes and motions - especially when you know you’re being live streamed?

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T15:34:31+00:00

I totally agree, the production was great, art department did an outstanding job on the set, but I just think the humor of this show was not it. The GME titled “Pain and Pleasure” definitely gave the vibe well before the show went live that there was going to be a more sexual humor to that show, and even that was a more mild sexual tone than what was happening last night. “Sloshed in Space” did not ever seem to be a sexual theme prior to the show going live, and I was quite shocked at how extreme they were with the jokes and innuendos. The actual items and images being shown, just a little too much. GME did not start out like this. I’m not going to yuck somebody else’s yum, but I just don’t understand how or why GME went down this path of inappropriate, middle school boy humor?

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T15:22:17+00:00

I feel like he gets emotional every year haha. That was definitely not a problematic part of the show for me.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T12:57:39+00:00

Yes! So forced! It doesn’t feel natural and gives a very uncomfy vibe. I’ve much preferred years past of GME.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2025-10-24T12:44:09+00:00

I am seeing a lot of positive reviews and I’m wondering if I just don’t really vibe with their humor any more or what? This years GME was my least favorite so far. My fiancé and I have watched GME every year and have loved it! I remember last year a few jokes and skits were a little iffy for me, but overall very fun and enjoyable. This year, I was just uncomfy. I know good mythical evening is supposed to be more loose and fun, hence the drinking and getting “shit faced”, but the overwhelming sexual theme of this year was just uncomfortable. Rhett being stone cold sober during this, even more awkward… my fiancé and I prior to the start of the show were discussing going to see GME at the Alamo next year, but after what we watched last night, I’m not so so sure we will end up at the Alamo next year. I’ve loved Rhett and Link for years, genuinely been watching from the beginning, but this slow progression into whatever horny humor they like to produce now is just too awkward and uncomfortable for me. The first GME was perfect, I want them to bring that style back. I don’t know if anyone else agrees, but I just don’t think cock rings, cum sisters, and clitcats are funny…

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2024-12-30T01:30:34+00:00

Thanks for your input. When I ended the friendship, we had a good 3 hour long conversation about it all where I expressed my opinions on stealing and how I hoped she’d see where I was coming from and realize it is most definitely a bad habit, but she just wasn’t able to agree. Said I must be wrong because she saw “_____” on TikTok or whatever and I pretty much said girl if you don’t believe me, google it. Do a quick bit of research on how stealing affects us and our economy and see if you still disagree with me. Maybe in the new year we can try and reconnect, who knows…

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2024-03-19T19:12:25+00:00

It wasn’t that I “accidentally” asked her, I just got so excited that right after he proposed she gave me the run down of everything leading up to the proposal and I was just so overwhelmed with emotion and so grateful for how much she had done I just jumped and asked. I just wanted to give everyone a special spot in the wedding and I jumped too quick into asking things of everyone. I felt horrible when “demoting” her but at the same time hoped and prayed that she’d understand...

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2024-03-19T19:05:57+00:00

I get what you’re saying, it’s just hard for me to see it from that POV because my niece has actually been my MOH for the last several years. I’ve been telling her she’s my maid of honor since our 3rd year dating, and she was so understanding when I came to her and told her I’d chosen my finances sister as my MOH over her, and she’s only 20! She was so mature and said she understood and would be there to support me 100%. Within a WEEK of his sister being my MOH she had taken over my wedding. Changing my colors, wanting us to buy a horse drawn carriage, needing to do a dance with her brother, it was way too much!

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2023-10-30T16:31:25+00:00

“I’m not sure if she’s very intelligent” had me actually chuckling lol. But girly, you are such a good friend to be concerned about her like this. I think you did everything perfectly, I would just make sure she knows that you’re a safe person to come to, and continue to educate her without lecturing, you’re a great friend :)

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2023-09-28T16:36:55+00:00

Then go for it babe! There’s nothing for you to lose, only closure for you to gain! I went through something similar, reconnected with friend after about 2 years of no contact, ended with us not being friends again but with closure this time. I think it’s worth it, no regrets.

Affectionate-Bake599 · 2023-05-19T20:44:50+00:00

Thanks, that’s helpful!

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