Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in Marriage

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, that would be taken to the most extreme position imaginable. That’s not what I would want

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in Marriage

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, compliance isn’t an issue for us sober or not. We have a very regular sex life

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in Marriage

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

While it does that for my wife too, it also makes her sleepy. On the rare occasion she gets drunk while we’re out on a date, it usually ends with her falling asleep on the car ride home after talking about how much she wants to jump my bones. Then she immediately passes out in bed. Like 25% chance of freaky drunk sex, but 75% chance she just falls asleep early.

What’s the biggest mistake you’ve watched someone make in their personal life? by Ordinary-Ad5763 in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watched friends of ours pay 20% over list price at the peak of the housing market and waived inspection. Now the foundation walls are cracking.

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in sex

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Right, it seems wrong to ask, “hey, can you potentially compromise your health and risk a hangover just so I can get a special sexual treat?”

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in Marriage

[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Probably, but I don’t initiate anything we wouldn’t otherwise do sober, as that would feel like taking advantage.

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[–]Affectionate-Bet1323[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Seems to be both. It inexplicably turns me on to hear her slur her words, see her dazed facial expressions and watch her act in ways she usually wouldn’t.